Movie Moments
What item do Tom and Summer pretend to shop for during their IKEA date?
A home / furniture
What does Summer tell Tom she doesn’t believe in?
True Love
What is a boundary in a relationship?
A limit that protects your emotional, mental, or physical well-being
What emotion does Tom feel most after the breakup?
Sadness / heartbreak
What’s one key sign of a healthy relationship?
Open and honest communication
What kind of job does Tom really want to have?
Architect
Did Summer clearly communicate that she didn’t want a serious relationship?
Yes
Is it healthy to set boundaries with someone you care about?
Yes
What’s one healthy way to deal with a breakup?
Talking to a friend or adult, writing about it, taking care of yourself
Is it okay to disagree in a healthy relationship?
Yes, if you communicate respectfully
What visual storytelling technique is used in the "Expectations vs. Reality" scene?
Split screen
What did Summer say changed her mind about love later in the film?
She met someone else and "just knew"
What is one way to communicate a boundary clearly?
Use "I" statements (e.g., "I need some time alone when I'm upset")
What’s one sign someone might not be coping well with a breakup?
Avoiding responsibilities, lashing out, or obsessing over the ex
Why is communication more important than just “getting along”?
Because it builds trust, solves problems, and helps people understand each other
How many days does the movie cover in Tom’s emotional timeline?
500
What mistake does Tom make when it comes to his feelings for Summer?
He idealizes her and ignores what she actually says
Why is it important to respect your partner’s boundaries?
It builds trust, safety, and mutual respect
What does Tom learn about himself through the breakup?
That he was projecting his ideas of love onto someone who didn’t feel the same
What’s a red flag in communication with a partner?
Guilt-tripping or silent treatment
What happens on Day 500?
Tom meets Autumn
Why is Tom hurt by Summer even though she was honest with him?
Because he built up unrealistic expectations and ignored the truth
What should you do if someone constantly ignores your boundaries?
Have a serious conversation, and if it continues, consider leaving the relationship
Why can breakups sometimes help people grow emotionally?
They force you to reflect, understand yourself better, and reset expectations
What does emotional maturity mean in a relationship?
Taking responsibility for your actions, understanding your emotions, and respecting boundaries