Problem Solving/Roadblock
1st Step to solving a problem or conflict
What is Define the Problem or Conflict?
This Roadblock means to hold responsible
What is Blame?
True or False-------"I" messages focus on the problem, not the person
What is True?
A student must decide whether or not to steal from a classmate
What is Character vs. Self?
Example: spreading rumors about a person
What is gossip?
2nd Step to solving a problem or conflict
What is Brainstorm Solutions?
This Roadblock is the use of abusive names to belittle or humiliate another person
What is Name-Calling?
The first thing you should say in an "I" Message.
What is say how You Feel or a feeling?
A student gets teased by a bully on the bus
What is Character vs. Character?
Leaving a person out of an activity or group
What is Exclusion?
3rd Step to solving a problem or conflict (two things involved)
What is Choose Solution and Act on It?
This Roadblock means to treat or speak to with rudeness
What is Insult?
The second thing you say in an "I" Message
What is When You/That You or the behavior that caused to to feel that way?
A child struggles with the inability to walk because they were born with a bone disease
What is Character vs. Nature?
Such things as hitting, shoving, or bumping into a person on purpose
What is Physical Contact?
This Roadblock is a sneering or cutting remark
What is Sarcasm?
This Roadblock means to charge with a fault
What is Accuse?
The last thing you should say in an "I" Message
What is Because or what you want to happen and what would make it better?
A person wants to break the law because they think it is unfair
What is Character vs. Society?
Such things as name-calling or taunting
What is Verbal Harassment?
This Roadblock means to offer a punishment or injury
What is Threaten?
Use the three parts that need to be included in an "I" Message in an "I" Message to your mom about her making you wear shoes you don't want to wear.
What is I feel _________ when you/that you _________________________ because _________________________________?