Recess Problems
Embarrassing Moments
Anger Triggers
100

Someone cuts in front of you in line.

✔ Possible Fix-It:
“Hey, I was next.”
“Can you go to the back?”

100

You trip and someone laughs.

✔ Fix-It:
“I’m okay.”
“Very funny.” (calm tone)

100

Someone bumps into you and doesn’t say sorry.

✔ Fix-It:
“Watch it.”
“Excuse me.”

200

You lose a game and someone cheers loudly in your face.

✔ Possible Fix-It:
“Good game.”
“That was loud.”
“Let’s play again.”

200

You read a word wrong out loud.

✔ Fix-It:
“Oops.”
“Let me try again.”

200

Someone grabs your pencil.

“I was using that. Can I have it back?”

300

Someone won’t pass you the ball.

Possible Fix-It:
“Can I get a turn?”
“Pass it next time, please.”

300

Someone whispers and looks at you.

Fix-It:
“Do you need something?”
Ignore and move on.

300

Someone blames you for something you didn’t do.

✔ Fix-It:
“That wasn’t me.”
“Can we check first?”

400

A friend says they don’t want to play your game.

✔ Possible Fix-It:
“That’s okay. What do you want to play?”

400

Someone says your drawing looks weird.

Fix-It:
“I like it.”
“It’s supposed to look like that.”

400

Someone calls you annoying.

✔ Fix-It:
“That’s not nice.”
Walk away calmly.

500

Someone says, “You’re bad at this.”

✔ Possible Fix-It:
“I’m still learning.”
“That’s not nice.”

500

A classmate says your shoes are ugly.

Fix-It:
“I like them.”
“That’s your opinion.”

500

Someone makes fun of your family.


✔ Fix-It:
“Don’t talk about my family.”
Tell adult if needed.

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