Boundaries
What is a boundary?
protecting yourself, people you trust, keep you calm
What is a positive consequence?
Something good happens
What is a short-term consequence?
happens immediately after the action
Player with the most points loses
100 points
What is a high and low?
High: something good that happened
Low: something bad that happened
What word can a boundary also be known as?
Your bubble
What is a negative consequence?
Something bad happens
What is a long-term consequence?
something that happens over an extended period of time
What is bullying?
Repetitively hurting one person or a group of people
Give an example of a bad consequence?
Answer varies: ISS, sent to office
Who are the people that are in your bubble?
Answer varies: family and/or friends
Lose your turn!
Uh oh!
Scenario: Talk back to the teacher. What is the short-term consequence?
Short-term: get sent out of class
How does bullying affect people?
Makes them feel alone and scared
What do you do to stay calm?
Answer varies: talk to a friend or take deep breaths
Give player with least amount of points
400 points
What is a consequence?
What happens right after you do something, it can be good or bad
Scenario: Do not complete homework. What is the short-term and long-term consequence?
Short-term: more free-time
Long-term: lower grades, more stress, becomes a habit
What can you do to stop bullying?
Answer varies: speak up when its safe, support classmates, tell a trusted adult, be kind
What is something you have learned and will you use in the future?
Answer varies: think about all my options, yes because it will help me make good decisions or my bubble, yes because I am aware of the people in my life that are allowed in it
What happens if someone "pops your bubble"?
Answer varies: get angry, frustrated, upset
Scenario: You ask for a break when you feel angry. Would this result in a good or bad consequence?
Good!
One choice I make often that I want to change is ____. For the next time I will _____. Must complete both parts to receive all points.
What are the 4 ways of bullying (we discussed)?
Additional 100 points if you can tell us what each of them mean
Physical- damage to body, verbal- with words, social- try to harm someone's reputation, and cyber- online
What is a coping mechanism?
Something used to regulate yourself or calm yourself down, find peace