Friendships
Decision Making
Expected and Unexpected Behaviors
Peer Pressure
Communication
100
Name 3 qualities of a good friend
→ Shared values: if you are honest, you will appreciate honesty in a friend
→ Reliability: reliable friends do what they say they will do
→ Loyalty: in strong friendships, both friends are loyal to each other
→ Sympathy: a sympathetic friend is aware of how you may be feeling and will respect your feelings
→ Caring: a good friend shows interest in your feelings and values
→ Trust: trust in friendships goes both ways
→ Cooperation: helping each other and offering support
→ Respect: a good friend has self-respect
100
What is a decision?
The act of making up one's mind
100
Define Expected Behavior
Expected behavior is simply behavior that is normal, reasonable and anticipated.
100
Define Peer Pressure
the influence that your peer group has on you.
100
Name 5 ways you can communicate
Any type
200
How can you strengthen your friendships?
→ Spend time together
→ Communicate openly and honestly
→ Help each other through hard times
→ Respect each other’s differences
→ Encourage each other to reach your goals
→ Identify problems and work to solve them
200
What three steps do you go through to make a decision
Hint - think of
Stop - Think - Go
200
Define Unexpected Behavior
Unexpected behavior is behavior that is out of the norm, and is unusual.
200
Name the two types of Peer Pressure.
Direct and Indirect
200
Is more communication verbal or non-verbal?
About 65% to 80% of communication is non-verbal!
300
Define "Peer"
Peers
→ close to you in age + a lot like you
→ can be someone you never met, but have something in common with
300
Define "think" In the decision making process
Think - Ask yourself what your choices or options are. Also think about the possible outcomes of each
300
Name three feelings you may feel when someone is doing something unexpected
Example: You teacher starts dancing and singing on the table in the middle of a lesson
FEELINGS ONLY
300
Give an example of direct peer pressure
Anything someone tells you to do
300
Name the 4 types of communication styles
passive
aggressive
assertive
passive aggressive
400
What is the difference between a friend and an acquaintance?
→ someone you see occasionally or know casually, but do not do activities yet together that would be considered a friend
400
True or False: Hitting your brother for taking your game control is a decision you can make
True: You always have a choice, or decision. Thinking through choices and consequences of those choices help you to make the best choice.
400
Name three thoughts you may have if someone does something unexpected
Example: The kid next to you starts screaming and crying after looking at their math test.
THOUGHTS ONLY
400
Give an example of indirect peer pressure
Anything you do because you observe others
400
What type of statement is used for assertive communication
I statement
500
Name the organ in your body that changes during your teen years that has an effect on your friendships and connections to others
In your teen years, changes in your brain chemistry impact how strong of connections you have with friends
500
Name something that influences your decision making process
peers , adults, family values
500
What is the best way to react when unexpected behaviors occur in the classroom?
Ignore, speak politely, offer assistance - positive strategies only
500
Give an example of when peer pressure can be positive
Any positive response.
500
Create An I-statement for this scenario:
Your friend tells you that they don't want to be your friend anymore.
I feel _____________
When_____________
Because___________
I need ______________