SEL Basics
Talk That Talk:
Trash Talk vs Constructive Criticism
Did You Hear Me?:
Hearing vs Listening
I Feel You:
Empathy
Don't Judge a Book By Its Cover: Stereotypes
100

What does SEL stand for?

*(Social and Emotional Learning)*

100

True or False: Trash talk is always meant to help someone improve.

*(False)*  

100

What is the main difference between listening and hearing?

*(Listening requires understanding and focus--active, while hearing is just perceiving sound--passive.)*  

100

What is empathy?  

*(The ability to understand and share the feelings of another)*

100

What is a stereotype?

*(A generalized belief or judgment about a group of people based solely on their appearance or one part of their identity.)*  

200

**DAILY DOUBLE**

What is the SEL agenda for most classes?

1. Journal

2. Share/Discussion

3. Activity/Game

200

What is constructive criticism?  

*(Feedback that is kind, helpful, and focused on improvement.)*

200

True or False: You can listen to someone while playing on your phone.  

*(False)*

200

True or False: Empathy means you have to agree with someone’s feelings.

*(False)*  

200

True or False: Stereotypes are always true.  

*(False)*

300

How many SEL teachers are there?

3

300

Which of these is an example of constructive criticism:     A) “You’re so bad at this!”  

   B) “You made a mistake here, but next time try doing this instead.”

*(B) “You made a mistake here, but next time try doing this instead.”

300

Name three body language signs that show you are actively listening to someone.

*(Eye contact, nodding, leaning in, etc.)*  

300

Give an example of showing empathy to a friend who is sad about his goldfish dying.

*(Saying, “I’m sorry your goldfish died; I’m here for you.”)*  

300

True or False: Some stereotypes are true.

*(True)*

400

What is the purpose of SEL class?

To learn how to manage emotions, calm down when upset, get along with others, etc.

400

Name three negative effects of trash talk.  

*(It can hurt feelings, ruin friendships/relationships, or lower confidence/self-esteem)*

400

If someone tells you about their bad day, how can you show you are truly listening?  (Give three examples)

*(Repeat what they said, ask questions, or show empathy.)*

400

What is the idiom or figurative phrase that describes empathy?

Putting yourself in someone else's shoes

400

Why can believing stereotypes be harmful?

*(It can create unfair judgments and limit opportunities for others, places people in a box.)*  

500

How many years combined have the counselors been working at WJA?

20 years

500

Rewrite this trash talk into constructive criticism: “You suck at math!”  

*(“It looks like you’re struggling with math—let’s work on it together/with practice you'll get it.”)*

500

Why is listening considered a key skill in building strong relationships?

*(It shows respect, builds trust, and helps avoid misunderstandings.)*  

500

***DAILY DOUBLE**

What are the 4 elements of an "empathy map"  

What do they do?

What do they think?

What do they feel?

What do they say?

500

What’s one way you can challenge a stereotype?

*(By getting to know people as individuals or questioning generalized beliefs.)*  

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