4 rules of Peer Mediation
For all parties, Mediation has to be?
What is voluntary
The first step to mediation:
what each conflict peer must agree to do
What is Agree to Mediate"
Think?
Is conflict good or bad?
Think before you answer
What is; Good or Bad
Both participants _____ to work things out
What is; Agree
What is said in the room, stays in the room is what?
What is "Confidential.
Rules:
Name a rule that must be followed
~ One person speaks at a time,
~ Use "I" statements
~ What is said here stays here ( unless someone is in danger)
~ No name calling or put- downs
~ No interrupting
~ Be honest
Who controls your temper?
Who is me
Mediators have both participants sign a ________
What is; a contract
What is "Neutral"
Where should the mediation take place.
Where is away from other students and in a quite place.
Who usually takes care of your conflicts?
Who is; a family member or a teacher
The mediators check in with participants in approximately a ______ to see how things are working out.
What is; A week
True or False:
The mediators come up with a solution to the conflict
What is "False"
Who speaks first?
Who is; the person who requests mediation
What are common conflicts?
Think before answering
What is;
~ unfairness
~ rumors
~ exclusions
~ teacher / student disagreements
~ physical attacks
~ lack of clear communication
Contracts are kept confidential and are destroyed only when _________________
What is; only when after checking in with participants and all seems fine.
True or False:
A mediator plays country music during the mediation.
What is; False
What is given to the participants before they speak
What is; a pen and paper
Can conflicts ever be handled
What is; Yes
Can two participants be mediated more than one time?
What is; Yes