Boundaries
Wise Choices
Coping Skills/Feelings
Following Directions
Session Rules
100

You ask your friend if she would like a hug as she is leaving daycare. Your friend says "no". What do you do?

Respect her boundaries. Do not hug.

100

A bully comes over and pushes you down. Which of the options is the most appropriate way to handle the situation?

A. Push the kid back

B. Yell at the kid

C. Tell a nearby trusted adult

D. Throw nearby objects out of anger

C. Tell a nearby trusted adult

100

An example of this coping skill includes going to a safe location away from a stressful situation for a bit to regulate your emotions.

A. exercise

B. deep breathing

C. taking a break

D. crafting

C. taking a break

100

Mr. Kyle directs you to hand him an object. Which option is the most appropriate response?

A. Hand the object directly to Mr. Kyle without hesitation, question, lingering or a disrespectful attitude.

B. Ignoring Mr. Kyle and putting the object away where it belongs.

C. Throw the object.

D. Hide the object.

E. Yell and attempt argue with Mr. Kyle.

A. Hand the object directly to Mr. Kyle without hesitation, question, lingering or disrespectful attitude.

100

Fill in the blank:

Hands, feet and body _________.

to ourselves.

200

Someone has entered your intimate zone of personal space and you are beginning to feel uncomfortable. Which of the options is the best idea?

A. Push them

B. Yell at them

C. Kindly tell them you feel uncomfortable and ask them politely to give you some more space

D. Run away into the street

C. Kindly tell them you feel uncomfortable and ask them politely to give you some more space

200
What are the proper steps to washing your hands?


A. turn on sink, rinse hands, apply soap to hands, lather hands with the soap, rinse soapy hands with the running water for at least 20 Mississippi seconds, turn off the sink, dry hands

B. turn on sink, rinse hands with water for 2 seconds, turn off sink and run away

C. turn on sink, rinse hands, use soap, rinse hands for 2 seconds, turn off sink and dry hands with clothes

D. Turn on sink, pretend to wash hands, turn off sink

A. turn on sink, rinse hands, apply soap to hands, lather hands with the soap, rinse soapy hands with the running water for at least 20 Mississippi seconds, turn off the sink, dry hands

200

An example of this coping skills includes jumping jacks, brain breaks, yoga and jogging

A. exercise

B. taking a nap

C. enjoying a snack break

D. using fidget toys 

A. exercise

200

Mr. Kyle gives you a direction. Which is the most appropriate response?

A. Follow the direction

B. Roll your eyes and whine at Mr. Kyle

C. Ask Mr. Kyle "Why do you have to ask me this every day?"

D. Ignore Mr. Kyle

A. Follow the direction

200

What does "using your listening ears" mean?

Actively listen and follow directions


300

You want to play tag with your friends. What do you do?

A. ask them if they want to play tag and respect their answer if they say no

B. go up to them and tag them on the shoulder without asking

C. tell them "We are playing tag!", tag them and run

D. ask them if they want to play tag and beg them to play if they say no

A. ask them if they want to play tag and respect their answer if they say no

300

You really want to sit in the lunchroom/cafeteria at lunchtime. What can you do in order to earn that privilege?

A. Follow school/lunchroom rules (food is for eating)

B. Throw food

C. Disrespect others

A. Follow school/lunchroom rules

300

Which of the following is NOT an appropriate way to express your feelings?

A. calmly state how you are feeling

B. using facial expressions 

C. debrief/talk about your concerns with someone/an adult you trust

D. hit someone

D. hit someone

300

A teacher directs you to remain seated on the carpet/rug or your assigned seat. What do you do?

Follow the direction. Remain seated in assigned seat.
300

Who do you follow directions from throughout the entire ABA session?

Mr. Kyle

(You also listen to Mom, Mama, Mr. Sean, teachers, daycare staff and known trusted adults.).

400

What is the personal space zone that only your family and yourself can be in?

A. personal zone

B. public zone

C. intimate zone

D. social zone

C. intimate zone

400

Which of the following is a wise choice?

A. brushing your teeth

B. fighting

C. leaving your toys all over the floor

D. not following directions

A. brushing your teeth

400

What coping skill can you do anywhere at any time?

A. deep breathing

B. jog

C. yoga

D. take a nap

A. deep breathing

400

You got to go to the park with Mr. Kyle. Yay! It is time to go home from the park. What do you do?

A. Run away from Mr. Kyle

B. Hide from Mr. Kyle

C. Leave the park appropriately and safely within a safe distance of Mr. Kyle.

D. Attempt to argue, back talk, or disrespect Mr. Kyle

E. Throw a tantrum

F. Ignore Mr. Kyle, walk really slowing, picking things up, tossing objects and stalling

C. Leave the park appropriately and safely within a safe distance of Mr. Kyle.

400

How should you speak to others including Mr. Kyle? What kind of words?

Nice words, inside calm voice

500

Which personal space zone can strangers be in?

A. public zone

B. personal zone

C. intimate zone

D. social zone

A. public zone

500

You want to use the monkey bars but there is a line. What can you do?

A. cut in line and go on the monkey bars first

B. push the person in front of you to get to the monkey bars faster

C. wait your turn patiently or do another activity

D. stomp away and pout


C. wait your turn patiently or do another activity

500

How could someone be feeling if you see them with scrunched eyebrows, a frown and clenched fists?

A. happy

B. sleepy

C. surprised

D. mad

D. mad

500

What is an example of following directions at school?

A. using inside voice and nice words

B. throwing objects

C. screaming

D. running around

A. using inside voice and nice words

500

What can you do so you can walk without Mr. Kyle having to hold your hand or give a supportive guide?

Walk directly, safely, independently to the car/house/location within a safe distance of Mr. Kyle.

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