Tactics
Continuum/Tactic
Responsible Thinking
Parenting
Irresponsible Thinking Barriers
100
I am changing the subject.
What is Diversion?
100
Being unreliable, late, lieing, lazy.
What is Generally irresponsible?
100
Opposite of Fear of losing face, works toward win/win relationship.
What is Courage over Fear?
100
Passive, weak, inconsistent, allow child to regulate own activities, home life is chaotic, uncontrollable, accepting youth's irresponsible behaviors, little consequences, gives up, does nothing.
What is the Bystander?
100
Opposite if Self Respect, unreceptive, not self critical.
What is Superior Self Image?
200
Telling others what they want to hear.
What is Casing people out?
200
Commiting crimes, plotting criminal activities.
What is Generally extreme?
200
Opposite of superior self image, sees self no better or worse that others.
What is Self Respect?
200
Reasonable, flexible, attempt to direct youth's activities, home life is orderly, consistent, incentives, consequences, negotiation.
What is the Guide?
200
Opposite of Courage Over Fear, sees others better than self.
What is Fear of Losing Face?
300
I reveal nothing.
What is Silence?
300
You are the problem.
What is Attack?
300
Opposite of Closed Thinking, considerate of others.
What is Open Channel?
300
Uncompromising, strict, attempt to control behavior according to absolute standard, home life is tense and oppressive, yelling, threatening, bribing.
What is the Boss?
300
Opposite of Daily Effort, no obligation to others, says I can't meaning I won't, doesn't acknowledge harm to others.
What is Reckless Attitude?
400
Everyone does it.
What is Generalization?
400
Going to school, fulfills obligations, coming home on time.
What is Generally responsible?
400
Opposite of Reckless Attitude, receptive to positive change, fulfilling obligations.
What is Daily Effort?
400
Behavior that happens over and over again not incidental.
What is Patterned Behavior?
400
Opposite of Personal Accountability, feels worthless/helpless, fear of insults.
What is Victim Role?
500
It's not a big deal.
What is Minimizing?
500
Feels successful because crimes have gone undetected, unreceptive to responsible alternatives and correction.
What is Generally Arrestable.
500
Opposite of Victim Role, crtical of own behavior.
What is Personal Accountability?
500
How parents can stop irresponsible behaivor.
What is hold youth accountable?
500
Opposite of Open Channel, thinks other's views are worthless, views others as possessions.
What is Closed Thinking?
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