What is bullying?
What 3 things are included in the definition of bullying?
Intentional
Repeated over time
Difference in power
What does ACT stand for?
A - Action
C - Care
T - Tell
What is one way to show you care about someone?
(Various answers)
Be kind, smile, play with them, share
Who are 3 trusted adults you can talk to about a bullying situation?
(Various answers)
Principal
Teacher
Counselor
Where are 3 places that cyberbullying can happen?
(Various answers)
Musically
XBox Live
What is a frenemy?
Someone who may act like your friends sometimes, but not other times. He or she may tease you, ignore you, or leave you out on purpose.
What are two ways to take action when you see bullying?
Speak up
Seek help
What do you call the person that is observing the bullying?
Bystander
What is it called when you report something to the teacher just to get someone in trouble?
Tattling
Why would a bystander not stand up for a victim?
(Various) They might think the bully will target them next.
Name calling, insults, threats
Physically harming someone or damaging someone's personal property.
What kind of comeback is it when you don't say or do anything back?
No Reaction Comeback
How can you show you care when someone is crying?
(Various answers)
Talk to them
Ask them what's wrong
What is it called when you report something to the teacher that is a big deal?
Telling
If you have a bullying issue that you are able to solve yourself, do you still have to tell a trusted adult?
Yes. That bully may be targeting other people and you might be protecting those victims by letting an adult know.
What are two examples of indirect bullying?
Spreading rumors (in person or online)
Excluding someone, gossiping
What kind of comeback is it when you agree with the bully or make a joke out of it? (You're right! I did wear this shirt yesterday!)
Agreement Comeback
What is empathy?
When you understand the feelings of someone else.
If you report to the teacher that the student next to you has Halloween candy inside his/her desk, is that tattling or telling?
Tattling
Why is excluding bullying?
Because the bully is using their power to convince others to treat the victim poorly.
What are two examples of cyberbullying?
Spreading rumors over the internet, posting mean messages on or photos on someone's social networking websites.
Sending mean or threatening texts or emails.
What kind of comeback is it when you firmly tell the bully that you don't like what he/she is doing?
Strong Assertive Comeback
If a bystander is someone that observes a bullying situation, what is an UPstander?
Someone who stands up for the victim.
If the adult you choose to tell about bullying says it's no big deal, what should you do?
Tell another trusted adult
Why do people stay friends with people who are frenemies?
(Various answers)
Because they're afraid they won't have very many friends.
There is a difference in power.