Questions you don't ask
The adoption Constellation
What is Adoption
Adoptee Feels
100

Are you they your fake parents or real parents?

Adoptive parent are very real, if you pinch them they may scream.

100

Someone who gave birth to you but can't take care of you. 

Birthmother. 

100

What is adoption?

When someone leaves you and another person takes you home.

100

How would an adoptee feel if they did know there birthparents?

Sad.

200

If you are adopted do you have to share your story with everyone?

No, you can share with whoever you want but it doesn't have to be anyone who asks. 

200

Someone who helped give birth to you but can't take care of you. 

Birthfatther.

200

Is being a part of an adoptive family good or bad?

Neither, it's just different. 

200

A feeling an adoptee may experience when they don't know about their adoption story.

Confused.

300

How come your mother didn't keep you?

This is just mean to ask.

300

Someone who is adopted. 

An adoptee. 
300

Why are children adopted?

For many different reasons, but ultimately the parents are unable to take care of the child. 

300

When you think you got a nice home/family, what feeling might you experience. 

Happy.

400

Did your parents have to pay for you?

This is no one's business.

400

Someone who takes you home and takes care of you. 

Adoptive parents. 

400

What is an adoptive sibling?

A sibling that is part of your adoptive family. 

400

A feeling an adoptee may feel when you don't know the parents that made you.

Embarrassed. 

500

Where are your real parents now?

An adoptee would probably point to them or say they are at home or work. If you are curious about the birth parents. You can ask but it's up to the adoptee to share what they feel comfortable with. 

500

Who else can be a part of the adoption constellation. 

Adoptive and birth siblings, grandparents, pets, uncles, aunts, cousins. 
500

What is a birth sibling? 

A sibling who is part of your birth family. 

500

When an adoptee wants to learn more about their adoption story/birthparents. They may feel. 

Curious.

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