Types of Boundaries
This type of boundary includes personal space and physical touch
What is physical boundary.
These are considered the single greatest unaddressed public health crisis of the modern era
What are ACES
Nonjudgmental listening, respecting each other's opinions and feelings.
What are value and empathy
Dating violence is rare among high school students, college students and other educated people.
What is false
Dating and domestic violence is common among all people – rich, poor, black, white, Asian, Latino, etc.
Every month end Ted has to give his wife his entire salary. She does not give him any money to buy his necessities. This type of abuse is known as ______________.
What is economic abuse
This type of boundary includes respecting feelings
What is an emotional boundary
These are considered counteractive to ACES and help individuals develop resilience
What are Positive Childhood Experiences
Respecting and supporting each other's independent opinions, goals, and interests as well as valuing yourself.
What is authenticity
When someone leaves an abusive relationship, the abuse usually ends.
What is False
Unfortunately, a time when a victim is most at risk is when leaving the relationship. This is called separation violence, and safety planning needs to be put in place for this whenever possible.
The two broad types of attachment styles are _______________ & _______________.
What are secure and insecure
This type of boundary includes setting limits on what possessions you share and with whom
What is material boundary
Abuse, Neglect and Household Dysfunction
What are the three categories of ACES
Accepting responsibility and eliminating the use of blame in the relationship.
What is accountability?
Drug and/or alcohol abuse is often a factor in dating violence incidents
What is True
Although drug and alcohol abuse is often a factor in dating violence, it is not a cause or an “excuse.”
Both victims and perpetrators of violence are much more likely to use drugs and alcohol than people who are not in abusive relationships.
What are the three types of communication styles?
What are assertive, passive, and aggressive.
This type of boundary refers to respecting thoughts and ideas
What is an intellectual boundary
1 in 6 adults experience _________ or more ACES
What is four
Making family and financial decisions together, making sure one partner does not control the money in the relationship, and mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work.
What are equality and teamwork
The best way to get a friend to leave an abusive relationship is to "cut ties" with them.
What is False
This may actually have the opposite effect. Someone who is being abused in a relationship needs outside help and support and is very unlikely to leave that relationship without the support and help of families and friends.
If your partner's love language is ______________, you should avoid making the requests of others a higher priority.
Acts of Service
This type of boundary includes how your time is used
What is a time boundary
Give three possible adult consequences of having an ACES score of 4 or more (the risk of ____________ is higher for an individual with a score of 4 or more)
Obesity
smoking
alcohol or drug misuse/abuse
diabetes
depression
increased rate of STD's
increased rate of suicide attempts
heart disease
broken bones
copd
cancer
stroke
Both partners feel comfortable to express independent thoughts, feelings and opinions. Both partners feel they can engage in independent activities.
What is Safety
If violence occurs once in a dating relationship, it is likely to happen again
What is True
It is rare for someone to hit or otherwise abuse their partner once and never do it again.
Meditation, hobby & creative time are examples of self-care for people with this love language
What is quality time