School Situations
You didn't understand the homework and decided to copy a friend's answers. What is an alternative action?
What are... ask the teacher or a classmate for help to understand the homework?
A friend asked you to join a game, but you told them you were too busy, even though you weren’t.
What are... honestly telling your friend when you are available to hang out or play?
Your parents asked you to clean the garage, but you were in the middle of reading a book. You decided to ignore the request and keep reading, hoping they’d forget about it.
What are... finishing the chapter and taking a break and then going to clean the garage, or asking if you can do it later so you can finish your task while still being responsible?
You posted a picture on social media that your friends thought was funny, but now, after thinking about it, you realize it could hurt someone's feelings. It’s already been shared a few times.
What are... deleting the post, apologizing to the person it might have hurt, and explaining that you didn’t mean to upset anyone?
You’re in a big group project where everyone is supposed to contribute equally, but one person isn’t pulling their weight. You don’t want to make things awkward, so you do their part for them.
What are... talking to the person about helping out, suggesting ways to divide the work more fairly, and talking to the teacher if the issue persists?
You were bored in class and started chatting with your friend during the lesson.
What are... focus on the lesson and take notes to stay engaged?
You overheard that your best friend said something unkind about you to another friend, but when you confront them, they deny it. You're upset and feel betrayed but don't know how to proceed.
What are... giving your friend a chance to explain themselves, sharing how their actions made you feel, and listening to their side before making any conclusions?
Your older sibling keeps taking your clothes without asking, and it’s starting to annoy you. You don’t want to cause a fight, so you just let it slide every time.
What are... having a calm conversation with your sibling about respecting your things and asking them to ask first before borrowing?
You’re in a group chat, and someone posts a mean comment about a classmate. You don’t want to seem like a troublemaker, so you decide to ignore it.
What are... politely asking the group to keep things respectful and telling the person that their comment wasn’t appropriate, even if it’s hard, or telling a trusted adult?
You failed a big test because you didn’t study, and you feel guilty. You’re tempted to not show anyone your grade to avoid judgment.
What are... owning up to the result, asking the teacher for feedback on how to improve, and making a plan to study more effectively for the next test?
You were accused of cheating during a test, but you didn't speak up.
What are... calmly explain the situation and ask for a chance to prove your honesty?
Your friend has been making fun of another student in a way that makes you uncomfortable. When you point it out, they say it’s just a joke, and you should lighten up. You feel pressured to laugh along.
What are... telling your friend that the joke wasn’t funny and explaining how it can hurt others, offering to be supportive in a positive way?
Your parents set a rule that you can’t go out on school field trips unless you get better grades, but you feel the rule is unfair because there's a big trip next week, and you’ve been working hard. You scream at them and stay in your room.
What are... discussing with your parents how you feel about the rule and proposing a compromise, like showing them your completed homework to earn the field trip.
A classmate posted something that isn’t true about you, and people are commenting negatively. You feel the urge to reply with a defensive post, but you’re unsure.
What are... calmly addressing the false information by speaking directly to the classmate or others privately, or telling an adult if necessary, instead of reacting emotionally online?
You were assigned a task that seems too hard for you to complete alone, but you don’t want to ask for help because you don’t want to seem like you’re struggling.
What are... reaching out for help from a teacher, classmate, or family member to make sure you understand the task and do your best?
You forgot to study for a big test and decided to skip school to avoid it.
What are... confessing that you didn't study and asking for advice on how to handle the test?
Your friend keeps borrowing things from you without returning them, and you're starting to feel frustrated. You don’t want to create tension but don’t want to keep giving them your stuff either.
What are... calmly talking to your friend, saying you’d appreciate it if they could return the items, and setting clear boundaries about borrowing things?
Your younger sibling ruined your favorite book and didn’t apologize. You’re really upset and want to yell at them for not taking responsibility. You’re not sure how to approach them without making things worse.
What are... talking to your sibling about how their actions made you feel, explaining why the book was important to you, and finding a way for them to make amends?
You noticed a friend posted something very personal online, and you think they might regret it later. You feel conflicted about whether to say something or keep quiet.
What are... privately talking to your friend to ask if they’re sure about sharing that information, and offering your support if they need help removing or editing the post?
You were offered a chance to join an after-school activity that sounds fun, but it conflicts with your homework time. You decide to go ahead and join without thinking through the consequences.
What are... talking to your parents about managing your time so that you can participate in the activity while still staying on top of your homework?
Your classmate asked to borrow your pencil, but you said no without explaining.
What are... kindly saying, "Sure, I can lend you my pencil, but please return it after class"?
Your friend is constantly canceling plans, and you’ve started to feel like they’re not prioritizing your friendship. You’re tempted to just stop reaching out to them and let the friendship fade.
What are... talking to your friend about how you feel and asking if there’s something going on in their life that’s preventing them from hanging out, giving them the chance to explain?
Your parents are arguing about something serious, and you feel like it’s your fault because you overheard them talking about your recent behavior. You’re scared to talk to them about it.
What are... talking to your parents privately about how you feel, apologizing for any part of the situation that may have caused stress, and asking if you can all work together to improve things?
You received a message from someone you don’t know asking for personal details about your life. You feel uncomfortable but aren’t sure how to respond.
What are... not sharing any personal information, blocking the person if necessary, and telling a trusted adult about the situation?
You accidentally broke something in a store, and you don’t have enough money to pay for it. You panic and think about just leaving the store without saying anything.
What are... calmly telling your parents and a store employee about the accident?