Domestic Violence
What is Domestic Violence?
Domestic Violence is a pattern of behavior used by one person to gain power and control over another in a close relationship.
What is stress?
Stress is your body's reaction to pressure or challenge.
What is communication?
Communication is how we share our thoughts, feelings, and needs.
What is the difference between a bystander and an active bystander?
A bystander is a person who is present at an event or incident but does not take part. An active bystander is someone who observes a harmful, unethical, or inappropriate situation and chooses to take action to make a difference, rather than being a passive observer.
What is Quigley House?
Quigley House is the only dual-certified Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault center in Clay County.
Name one type of abuse
Types of abuse include physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, financial abuse, and technological abuse.
Strategies we use to manage stress, emotions, and difficult situations
Name one type of communication
Verbal, Nonverbal, Written, and Active Listening
What is one example of a barrier to being an active bystander?
Fear of embarrassment, thinking someone else will step in, "it's not my business", not knowing what to say, fear of making it worse, power imbalance.
Who is Mike's favorite football team?
Jacksonville Jaguars
Myth or Fact: Only women can be victims.
Anyone can be a victim, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Why do healthy coping mechanisms matter?
Healthy coping mechanisms matter because they help us in ways that protect our mental, emotional, and physical health.
Why does good communication matter?
Builds trust and respect with others, Helps solve problems without fighting, Prevents misunderstandings, Strengthens friendships, family, and team relationships, Helps you express feelings safely
What is one way someone could intervene?
Giving someone an exit, Getting help, Asking a quick check-in question, Changing the mood, Reporting a pattern, Interrupting a harmful joke, Staying with someone until they feel safe
What is Christina's favorite type of sandwich?
Club Sandwich
Name the visual tool that is used to illustrate the tactics abusers use to exert control and maintain power over their partners.
The Power and Control Wheel
What are examples of healthy coping mechanisms?
Deep breathing, creative expression, listening to music, physical exercise
What is conflict?
Conflict is when two or more people have different needs, wants, or opinions.
Name one of the D's of bystander intervention.
Direct, Distract, Delegate, and Delay
What is Christina's favorite song?
Man I Need by Olivia Dean
Name two tactics that are often used by abusers to exert power and control.
Intimidation, Isolation, Using Privilege, Using financial control, minimizing, denying, and blaming, coercion and threats.
What are examples of unhealthy coping mechanisms?
Avoidance, substance abuse, aggression, self-harm, rumination, isolation, procrastination, over-eating or under-eating.
What are the 5 conflict outcomes?
Win-lose, lose-win, lose-lose, compromise, and win-win
If an intervention isn't safe, what D should you choose?
Delegate or Delay
What school has the greatest group of of young men?
AMI KIDS!