5,4,3,2,1
Ice Cream Sandwich
Heart Coherence
When someone is mad/mean
Ways to calm down
100

five things you...

see

100

Example of an "I statement"

I feel hurt when you...

100

Change focus from the head (brain) to ...

the heart

100

Say "I didn't catch that, please..."

say it again

100

Visualize...

A calm place

200

four things you feel with your inner _____

wheel

200

Example of a validation 

I know you want (me to...)

200

Which should be longer to calm down, inhale or exhale?

exhale

200

Practice self compassion by...

being your own bff, 5:1 rule (pos:neg)

200

Something for your hands

A squishy

300

three things you...

hear

300

Example of a request

I need you to...

300

How can you create a good feeling in your heart?

Gratitude

300

Walk...

...away

300

At technique using your senses

5,4,3,2,1

400

two things you

smell in the air

400

Example of an appreciation

Thank you for being a good sister

400

Coherence means ...

syncronized, lined up, in rhythm, same frequency

400

Write...

A card, letter, your feelings

400

Take a break and ...

walk, drink water, find a favorite: quiet place, book, song, etc. 

500

one thing you ...

taste

500

Example of a gratitude

Thank you for being patient with me

500

What is a good outcome of heart coherence?

immunity, wellbeing, clarity

500

Say "Did you mean to ..."

"make me upset? be rude? be mean? put me down?"

500

Something you don't like to be told to do

Breathe! Count to 10! 

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