All or Nothing
Just the Bad
Fortune Teller
Mind Reader
Blaming ANT
100

The teacher always picks me last to answer questions.

Has the teacher picked me last every time? I can't get picked first every time.

100

Today is a bad day because I spilled my cereal.

Spilling my cereal was ONE bad thing but it does not mean the whole day will be bad.

100

I am not going to do well on my math quiz today.

I do not know if this is true! I will study and try my best.

100

I can tell John doesn't like me.  He's looking at me funny.

I don't know why John is looking like that.  He looks mad but I'm not sure why.  I could ask him.

100

My peers are the reason that I am in a bad mood.

My peers can do things that upset me, but I ultimately can choose how I feel!

200

I will never be good at basketball. 

Practice will help me improve.  I can get better.

200

My art work looks terrible.

I did my best.  It may not have turned out the way I wanted it to, but that's ok.

200

I will probably have a bad day at school.

I have not started school for the day yet! It may be a good day.

200

People think I am weird.

I have no clue what others are thinking about me. Everyone is unique and that's ok!

200

The annoying kid in class is the reason why I cannot focus!

This kid may be annoying but I can control how I feel.  I can try a focusing skill to ignore the kid!

300

Nothing good ever happens to me.

Has NOTHING good ever happened to me? I can think of good things.

300

My friend is the worst friend ever because he was rude to me.

My friend may be having a bad day.

300

I will never be able to calm my worries.

It feels hard to stay calm right now.  I can focus on my breathing.

300

Everybody thinks I am bad at my sport.

Has anyone told me I'm bad?   I am probably doing just fine - I can keep practicing.

300

Lucy is the reason I am anxious, she is always saying rude things about me!

That is not kind of Lucy, but I can choose how to respond.  I can remind myself that just because she says something unkind about me, I can still feel good about myself.
400

Nick doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I will never have friends.

Nick may not want to be my friend, or he may just be mad.  I can try to work this out.  I can ask someone else to play.

400

It was my first time making a goal in soccer but we lost the game. It was a bad game.

It is amazing that I made a goal! I'm glad I was able to help the team.

400

I will never be able to learn this skill volleyball skill in P.E.

I don't know how I'll do until I try.

400

Olivia is laughing a lot with Megan. Olivia does not like me anymore.

I don't know way they're laughing - I can join the conversation.

400

People saying mean things to me is the reason I am unhappy.

I can control how I feel. I will not let anyone else control how I feel!

500

I never do well on math tests.

I sometimes have not done well on math test, but I can practice and do my best.

500

I am in a bad mood so my whole day will be bad.

I can change how I feel by how I think.  I can still have a good day.

500

The whole class will laugh at me if I answer the question wrong.

I don't know that. We are all learning here.

500

My teacher thinks that I am not smart because I got a lower grade on my test.

My teacher is here to help me.  She knows that I'm learning new things.

500

I could not pitch correctly because a teammate was rude and made me not think straight!

I can ignore rude comments and do my best.

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