Friends
Family
Strangers
At Work/School
Polite Refusals
100

"Can you give me a ride to the mall?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I can take you."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I can’t right now."

100

"Can you pass the salt?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, here it is."
→ Refusal: "It’s too far, sorry."

100

"Can you tell me the time?"

  • → Affirmative: "Yes, it’s 3:30."
    → Refusal: "Sorry, I don’t have a watch."

100

"Can you share your notes?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, you can copy them."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I need them."

100

"Can you lend me your phone?"

"Sorry, I don’t lend my phone."

200

"Can you help me with homework?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I can help you."
→ Refusal: "Not today, maybe tomorrow."

200

"Can you wash the dishes?"

→ Affirmative: "Okay, I’ll do it."
→ Refusal: "Not now, maybe later."

200

Can you open the door for me?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, of course!"
→ Refusal: "Sorry, my hands are full."

200

"Can you speak louder?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I’ll speak up."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, my throat hurts."

200

"Can you drive me home?"

Not today, but take the bus."

300

"Can you lend me your pencil?"

→ Affirmative: "Sure, here you go."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I need it."

300

"Can you pick up your sister from school?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I can go."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I have work."

300

"Can you take a picture for us?"

→ Affirmative: "Sure, smile!"
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I’m in a hurry."

300

"Can you work late today?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, for one hour."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I have plans."

300

"Can you do my homework?"

"No, that’s cheating!"

400

"Can you come to my party?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I’d love to!"
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I’m busy."

400

"Can you turn off the TV?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I’ll turn it off."
→ Refusal: "Wait 5 more minutes, please."

400

"Can you move your bag? I need to sit."

→ Affirmative: "Yes, no problem."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, this seat is taken."

400

"Can you email me the file?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, I’ll send it now."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, it’s not ready."

400

Can you work for free?"

"Sorry, I need payment."

500

"Can you feed my cat this weekend?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, no problem!"
→ Refusal: "I can’t, but ask [name]."

500

"Can you lend me $20?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, but please pay me back."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I don’t have cash."

500

"Can you help me find the train station?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, it’s that way."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I don’t know."

500

"Can you fix my computer?"

→ Affirmative: "Yes, let me try."
→ Refusal: "Sorry, I don’t know how."

500

"Can you lie for me?"

"No, that’s wrong."

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