No
When an authority figure says "No, because I said so," it is okay to not listen to them since they did not give a valid reason why.
What is an appropriate way to respond?
You want to hang out with friends, but you are grounded. You ask your adults, and they say "no." What should you do?
You could try negotiating, what would you say?
If they continuously say "no," you honor their decision without arguing.
You forgot your pencil again! You can...
a) Sit back and pretend to be thinking
b) Ask the teacher for a pencil
c) Look through everyone's desk
d) Ask someone sitting near you if they have an extra
How would you say this?
First ask a neighbor, then ask the teacher for a pencil.
Must demonstrate for points.
You are in a grocery store and you cannot find garlic powder to put in your spaghetti sauce.. what do you do?
1. Leave the store and cook without it.
2. Walk around the store for another hour trying to find it.
3. Ask a store employee to see if they know what aisle the seasoning is in.
3. Ask a store employee to see if they know what aisle the seasoning is in.
Demonstrate for points
Someone calls you a mean name. You turn to them and say...
Demonstrate a school appropriate response
True/False:Accepting no can be upsetting and disappointing.
True. Name some calming strategies to help you accept "no" for an answer.
You have been told to clean the dirty dishes, but you can't find the soap.. what do you do?
1. Walk away and ignore them until someone else finds the soap.
2. Ask where the soap is.
3. Rinse the dishes off without soap and put them away.
2. Ask where the soap is.
You're having a hard time focusing on your work in the classroom. You would.....
a) Stand up and yell for the class to be quiet
b) Walk around the room checking out everyone else's work.
c) Ask your teacher to work in a spot with less distraction.
Ask you teacher to work in a spot with less distraction.
What else can you ask for?
Demonstrate for points.
You are outside and you see somebody hit a car and then they drive away.. What should you do?
1. Call the police station to file an incident report
2. Go back inside and pretend like you didn't see anything
3. Run after the car
1. Call the police station to file an incident report
Demonstrate for points
This is what you do when you hear someone spreading a mean lie about you.
Demonstrate or discuss a school appropriate solution
When accepting "no" which is the most important thing to do?
A) Say "okay" and walk away
B) Proper body language (eye contact, sitting up straight, arms at your side, etc.)
C) Follow the authority's decision
A,B,C
You would like to move seats in the classroom. What do you do?
Describe a school appropriate response, demonstrate for points.
You haven't finished your assignment that is due in 2 days. You know you won't have time to complete the assignment, what do you do?
a) ask for more time
b) Pretend to be sick and skip school
c) copy your friends work
Ask for more time
Must demonstrate for points.
A student sitting near you is annoying you. What do you do?
Discuss and demonstrate a school appropriate response.
This is what you should do when the new kid at school is having trouble fitting in and your friends are laughing behind his back.
Discuss an appropriate response
Can you ask the same person for help that told you "no" in the past? Why or why not?
Yes
You tell your grandpa to "shut up and go away." He yells back and you get into a verbal fight with him. You feel bad later. What should you do?
1. Apologize and but tell him it was his fault.
2. Tell him that you were right and he was wrong.
3. Apologize for the unkind words and tell him that you might have needed a break.
3. Apologize for the unkind words and tell him that you might have needed a break.
The work doesn't make sense. You've tried to figure it out on your own. What do you do and in what order?
a) Give up and play video games
b) Pretend you know and pretend to finish the work
c) Ask the teacher in the room for help
d) Watch the videos in the lesson
e) Email your teacher
D
E
C
You're in Walmart and you drop a vase and it shatters on the ground. What do you do?
1. Walk away and pretend it wasn't you.
2. Pick up the glass on your own.
3. Ask a store employee to help you sweep up the glass, so nobody gets hurt.
3. Ask a store employee to help you sweep up the glass, so nobody gets hurt.
Talib didn't understand the rules of the game. Talib yelled at everyone.What should he do?
Discuss a school appropriate response, demonstrate for points
Can you ask multiple people for the same thing?
Why or why not? When would it be appropriate to do so?
Mention 3 expressions to ask for a help!
Can you help me?
Do you mind helping me?
I wonder if you could help me.
Can I/May I...?
Please show me how to...
You're trying to work on an assignment and you want to ask for help from the teacher... but you think it is a stupid question. What do you do?
1. Wait for the teacher to talk to you first
2. Use a fidget to help manage your anxiety
3. Take a deep breath and then walk over to the teacher and ask.
3. Take a deep breath and then walk over to the teacher and ask. Demonstrate for points.
You are working at McDonald's and somebody orders a pop, but you couldn't hear what they said. What should you do?
1. Give them a Coca-Cola and hope for the best.
2. Ask them to please report their whole order
3. Ask them what they ordered
3. Ask them what they said
Demonstrate for points
You've been told no, how can you ask for help understanding why you were told no?
Discuss a school appropriate response.