Etiquette Comes and Goes
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You should do this if RSVP appears on the invitation.

What is respond? You should usually do this whether you’re asked or not. Sometimes, regrets only is printed on the invitation. In that case, honor the sender’s wishes.

100

This comedian got no respect.

Who is Rodney Dangerfield? He was famous for his “I Don’t Get No Respect” stand-up routine. In addition, he appeared in many comedic films such as Caddyshack

100

This blanket is made by sewing scraps of fabric into intricate designs.

What is quilt? They originated in the Middle East and were brought to Europe in the 11th century

100

Also called films, we used to watch them in theaters, then on VHS and DVD; now we stream them from the internet.

What are movies? Today, most home viewing is done by streaming movies on the internet through subscription services.

100

This state has the largest landmass in the United States.

What is Alaska? It also has the largest coastline of any state. In terms of landmass, No. 2 is Texas, and No. 3 is California

200

At the table, this goes on your lap.

What is napkin? While it is useful for discreetly wiping one’s hands, at a fine restaurant it is also considered poor etiquette to use your napkin to wipe your face.

200

In this Chinese medical practice, a practitioner places needles in the body to stimulate meridians, the pathways along which the body’s vital energy flows.

What is acupuncture? The practice was developed somewhere between 6000 and 600 BC.

200

In this 1970s drama, Jack Krugman played a medical examiner.

What is Quincy? You were just as likely to find Dr. Quincy in the field as you were to see him in the morgue. He had a knack for solving crimes.

200

This piece of equipment, which was once used for voice communication, has taken over many people’s lives.

What is phone? Today’s phones double as cameras and have apps that mimic computer programs. Even with all the expanded capabilities, we still call them phones. The official term is smartphone or device.

200

This smallest U.S. state once had the longest name

What is Rhode Island? The official name used to be State of Rhode Island and Providence Plantations. In 2020, it was renamed to Rhode Island.

300

Your mother probably warned you that these should never go on the table while eating.

What are elbows? Today, it is still considered improper to have elbows on the table when plates of food are on it. However, between courses or after the meal, this rule is no longer considered necessary according to etiquette experts.

300

This is what one verse of a poem is called.

What is stanza? A verse that is repeated is called a refrain.

300

When someone becomes sick or infected, they might be expected to spend time at home in this 10-letter word.

What is quarantine? The practice of quarantining began in the 14th century. At the time, they would require ships to anchor and quarantine for 40 days before landing in Venice.

300

We used to think of apples as fruit; today it’s also the name of this type of company.

What is computer? Steve Jobs loved apples and came up with the name after visiting an apple orchard.

300

This state is the only state with a royal palace, the Iolani Palace

What is Hawaii? The palace houses relics from the Kalākaua Dynasty. Visitors are allowed to view the palace.

400

Once upon a time, a man should not have worn this in the house.

What is hat? It’s still perfectly proper to remove the hat when entering a building.

400

When corn, beans, and squash are planted together, we call it this garden

What is Three Sisters? When these three plants are planted as companion plants, nutrients are returned to the soil instead of stripping it.

400

A type of kitchen counter is made from this crystalline substance.

What is quartz? It’s made of one part silicon and two parts oxygen, also known as silicon dioxide.

400

Nearly 500 years ago, this word meant “flicking something away” or “making a brisk or jerky motion.” Today, it is used to describe a behavior intended to attract someone romantically

What is flirting? Some might argue one’s heart gets jerked around when flirting as well.

400

Boeing has the largest manufacturing plant in the world in this state.

What is Washington? Boeing’s Everett campus is larger than Disneyland and includes its own fire department.

500

We’ve been told TIPS stands for this at a restaurant.

What is to insure proper service? We’ve also been told TIP stands for to insure promptness.

500

The traditional name for the August full moon is also the name of this fish.

What is sturgeon? Giant sturgeon are most easily caught in the Great Lakes during this part of the year.

500

This is the minimum number of members who must be present to transact business

What is quorum? It can be a fixed number of people or a percentage of the body.

500

Now we say food and drink. People used to say this generic protein and drink

What is meat? Previously, the word meat was used to refer to any solid food.

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The first World Series game was held in this state, which is now home of the Red Sox

What is Massachusetts? It was held in 1903 between the Boston Pilgrims and the Pittsburgh Pirates, with Boston prevailing 7–3.

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