TRUST
Your friend tells you something ersonal and you do not spread it around. What are you showing
Trust.
Why it matters trust help people feel safe with you
Someone is talking and you let them finish instead of interrupting. What are you showing
Respect
Respect helps people feel heard
You make a mistake and admit it instead of blaming someone else. What you showing
What is responsiblity
Owning your choices helps people trust you.
you are angry and want to send a mean text, but you wait. What are you using?
Answer: What is self-control?
Why it matters: Waiting can stop a bad moment from becoming a bigger problem.
Clue: A friend supports you even when you are not around. What does that show?
Answer: What is loyalty?
Why it matters: Real friends should be consistent, not fake depending on who is watching.
You tell someone you will be there for them and you actually show up. What does that build
Trust
People learn if they can depend on you
You disagree with someone but do not insult them. What are you showing
You can disagree without turning it into drama
You forgot something important. Instead of making an excuse, you figure out how to fix it. What are you showing?
What is responsiblity?
It matters because you solve problems instead of avoiding them.
Clue: Someone says something disrespectful to you. You choose not to fight. What are you showing?
Answer: What is self-control?
Why it matters: You protect yourself from consequences you may regret later.
Clue: Your friend is doing something that could get them in trouble. Is agreeing with everything they do being a good friend?
Answer: What is no?
Why it matters: A real friend can tell you when you are making a bad choice.
Your friend tells you something private but you repeat it or someone else what can be damaged
Friendship, Trust
Once trust is broken the relationship can be done or changed
Someone tells you, Stop joking about that. You stop What are you respecting
Boundary. Respecting boundaries helps people feel safe around you
You hurt someones feelings even though you did not mean to. Do you still need to deal with it?
Yes, Your intentions matters but does the impact of your behavior
Clue: Why is walking away sometimes stronger than arguing back?
Answer: What is because you are controlling yourself instead of letting someone else control your reaction?
Clue: Your friend gets mad because you spend time with other people. Is that automatically loyalty?
Answer: What is no?
Why it matters: Healthy friendships allow space, independence, and other relationships.
Why is trust important in friendship and dating relationships
Because people need to feel safe, respected and able to be honest
Do you have to like someone to treat them respectfully?
NO
Respect is about how you act not whether you like the person
Why is being responsible important as you get older
Because I get more responsibility. >freedom >responsiblity
Clue: You are upset and everyone is telling you to “go say something.” What should you think about first?
Answer: What is what could happen next?
Why it matters: Thinking ahead helps you make safer decisions.
Clue: Which is more loyal: helping your friend hide something harmful or encouraging them to get help?
Answer: What is encouraging them to get help?
Why it matters: Loyalty should not mean helping someone stay in a harmful situation.
Your friend tells you a secret about being unsafe and says Dont tell anyone, Should you keep it
NO
Safety is more important than keeping a dangerous secret.
Why is respect important when you are angry
What I because anger does not give you permission to hurt, embarrass or disrespect someone
which shows more maturity, saying That wasn't my fault or saying I played a part in this and I need to fit it
Responsiblity
Growing up/Getting older/Maturing means owning your part even when it is uncomfortable.
Clue: Why is self-control important even when you believe you are right?
Answer: What is because being right does not mean every reaction is a good choice?
Clue: Why is it important to know the difference between loyalty and being controlled?
Answer: What is because a healthy friend respects your choices and boundaries instead of pressuring you?