Size of the problem-school
Your classmate is not doing their work.
Little Problem. It is not affecting you. You're not scared or worried, you're not in danger and there is no destruction. Let the teacher handle on their own time in their own way.
Your mom won't buy you your favorite snack.
Little problem
You forget to do your homework.
Little, you can explain to your teacher and ask for an extension.
You have several F's in school and your parents grounded you.
Little, our actions have consequences.
You didn't have time to eat breakfast.
Little, take a quick break and grab a snack before class if needed or grab breakfast in the cafeteria.
You are fighting with your sibling constantly.
Medium, this could have lasting impacts on your relationship and affect your family.
Someone tells you that they are being bullied.
Medium problem, you should report to an adult.
You find out a beloved family member has a terminal illness.
Medium/Big, this impacts a lot of people and likely will take up much of the families time.
There if a fire in your classroom.
Big problem-- this is an emergency that can affect a lot of people. Inform an adult immediately and follow all safety protocols.
You fall down and suspect that you have broken your arm.
Big problem, get to the hospital ASAP to get checked