Eyes
Instead of making direct eye contact, where can you look that still signals to the other person that you are engaged in the conversation?
Elsewhere on the person's face: forehead, eyebrow, ears, nose, cheek, chin, mouth
What can you say to communicate that eye contact makes you uncomfortable?
"I want to let you know that even if I am not looking at you, I am listening and hearing what you are saying."
Demonstrate an excited facial expression
Excited - smiling, open eyes
What does this emoji mean? 😅
Nervous laughter, embarrassment, or relief
What does this emoji mean? 😶
Speechless: "no comment 😶"
Disappointment or awkward
Why is eye contact important?
It shows interest and confidence
What might avoiding eye contact mean?
The person is thinking, shy, nervous, uncomfortable, or disinterested
Demonstrate an angry facial expression
Angry - scrunched face, pursed lips, furrowed brows
What does this emoji mean? 😝
Playful or silly mood
What does this emoji mean? 😱
Depends on context:
What is considered an appropriate amount of time to make eye contact for?
4-5 seconds
Aim for eye contact 50% of the time while speaking and 70% of the time while listening
What are some benefits of making eye contact?
People will be more likely to remember your face & what you said after a conversation
People are more likely to believe what you're saying
Eye contact helps improve a person's ability to read and mirror other non-verbal cues
What could winking mean?
Winking could be used when making a joke, flirting or being sarcastic
What does this emoji mean? 😑
Annoyed, frustrated or dissapointed
What does this emoji mean? 👀
Depends on context:
What could it mean if someone looks up or away?
They could be thinking, recalling or imagining something
How can you make eye contact seem more nartural?
When you need to break eye contact, look to the side instead of down
Use gestures, nodding, or other facial expressions to help break eye contact
What might another person think if your facial expression does not match what you are saying?
They may be confused, unsure, or not believe what you're saying is true
What does this emoji mean? 😌
pleasant feelings like contentment, calm, peace, or relief
What does this emoji mean? 🤦♀️
Frustration, embarrassment, or exasperation
What are 3 things to notice about eyes that can tell us what someone is thinking?
Where the eyes are looking
How long the eyes look in a direction
What the eyes are doing (narrow, wide, etc.)
In what situations is it especially important to make eye contact?
Greeting someone
Conveying sincerity
In an interview or serious situation
Speaking with an authority figure (professor, manager, police officer, etc.)
Why is it important for your facial expression to match what you are saying?
To avoid miscommunication or confusion. Your face helps people to figure out the meaning behind your words.
What does this emoji mean? 😪
Tired, sad, or illness
What does this emoji mean? 🥺
Depends on context: