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Boundary Basics!
Boundary Basics!
What is a boundary?
A rule or limit that helps people feel safe and respected.
What is personal space?
The area around a person that makes them feel comfortable.
What should you do before hugging someone?
Ask first! (“Can I give you a hug?”)
If someone crosses their arms or steps back, what does it mean?
They want more space.
What can you do when a friend needs a minute?
Give them a minute alone, then ask if there’s anything they need.
True or False: Everyone’s boundaries are the same.
False — everyone’s comfort zone is different.
How far should you stand from a friend when talking?
About an arm’s length away.
Your friend looks sad — what can you do before touching them?
Ask, “Do you want a hug or just want to talk?”
What does it mean when someone opens their arms?
They’re inviting you in — it’s okay to come closer.
Do you have to agree with friends on everything?
No, but you do have to stay respectful of friends’ opinions even if they are different from yours.
Why do we have boundaries?
To protect our feelings, space, and safety.
What do you do first before wanting to get into someone's bubble?
Ask permission
If someone says “no,” what should you do?
Respect it and do something else.
If Mom says she’s tired, what should you do?
Give her space or ask if she wants quiet time. If she has a lot to do, maybe ask if there’s anything you can do to help.
What can you do if a friend tells you they feel like being alone right now?
Find someone else to do an activity with, and respect your friend’s need for space.
What happens when we don’t respect someone’s boundary?
They can feel uncomfortable, upset, or unsafe.
What can you do if someone steps too close and you feel weird?
Step back or say, “I need a little space.”
What’s another way to show care without touching?
Smile, say something kind, or do something nice.
What can faces and body language tell us?
How people are feeling — if they’re open or need space.
Do you have to be kind to everyone here?
Yes! You have to show everyone kindness and respect, even if you’re not close with them.
You want to joke around with a friend, but they tell you to stop. What should you do and why?
Stop immediately — it shows respect and helps keep your friendship strong.
You’re excited to see your friend and want to hug them. They look tired and back up a little. What should you do next?
Pause and ask, “You okay with a hug?” or wave instead. You could also offer a high five or fist bump, instead. Respect their bubble.
Someone greets you with a good morning. How do you reply?
Say good morning back! Maybe ask how they’re doing, how their night or weekend was.
You’re hanging out and joking, but your friend stops laughing and looks away. What can you say to check in?
“Hey, are you okay? Did I go too far?” — It shows awareness and empathy.
If your friend says they don’t like something you’re doing, what could you do?
Think about why they said that. If you’re confused, talk to them about it respectfully. If you know why, stop doing it and respect their boundaries!