Vocabulary
Stages of Development
Family Roles
Types of Boundaries
100
A person who has let another person's behavior affect him/her, and is obsessed with controlling that person behavior. 
What is a Codependent. 
100
This is the forth stage of development. This stage they learn that they are in community and have a need to be connected. Re-establish cordial relationships. 
What is interdependence. 
100
This individual is the root cause for family dysfunction. They are very dependent and always shifting the blame on someone or something else. 
Who is the Addict. 
100

DAILY DOUBLE

Determine who are safe people to let into our lives and the appropriate interaction and behavior we permit from them. 

What is Relational Boundaries.
200
A unit that is made up of several parts which are related and connected. 
What is A system.
200
DAILY DOUBLE 

This stage they are practicing their independence. "Mine". No is an important boundary formed during this stage. 

What is practicing and rides on the heels of individuation. 
200
They are super responsible and does their best. They provide a sense of worth for the family. They take a lot of the responsibility other roles can not fulfill due to taking care of the addict. 
Who is the Hero. 
200

beneficial to our spiritual well-being. There should be clear boundaries to govern the beliefs we hold and how we put those beliefs into practice. 

What is Spiritual Boundaries. 
300
DAILY DOUBLE

A person who have a clear sense of themselves. They know their strengths and weaknesses, what they want, don't want, like, dislike, etc, and are OK with themselves. 

What is Healthy Boundaries.
300
This stage is a time of separation. "I am me". A sense of Mine is developed during this time. 
What is Individuation or Hatching.
300
This individual is the closest and dependent on the addict. They enable. 
Who is the Chief Enabler. 
300
Have to do with choosing who can touch us, how we can be touches, and where we can be touched. They communicate how close others can get to us and what they can do to us. 
What are Physical Boundaries. 
400
A action of stating something or exercising authority confidently and forcefully. 
What is Assertion.
400
This stage is "the intimate living together of two kinds of organisms." "I am you" 
What is Symbiotic. 
400
This person is often quiet and shy and does not cause problems for the family. 
Who is The Lost Child. 
400
Limits on what is safe and appropriate sexual behavior as well as comments that are made both to us and by us. 
What are sexual boundaries. 
500
Hostile or violent behavior or attitudes toward another; readiness to attack or confront. 
What is aggression.
500
One task a child should have mastered in the first three years. 
What is.. -The ability to be emotionally attached to others, yet without giving up a sense of self and one's freedom to be apart. -The ability to say appropriate no's to others without fear of loss of love. -The ability to take appropriate no's from others without withdrawing emotionally. 
500
This person often has rebelliousness that takes focus away from other roles. They often carry the pain and blame of the family. 
Who is the Scapegoat. 
500
Set limits on what is safe and appropriate for us to feel. They limit what things we let in and let out that provoke feelings. They determine how we let people treat us, including the range of personal comments that we will accept from others. 
What are emotional boundaries. 
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