My Actions have Consequences
Jumping up and down on my bed
Given: Lose a treat, lose electronics, cannot play with friends
(share your answer)
Name 2 ways you can calm down.
Breathing and Reading
(share your own answer)
Active listening skills
Good eye contact, looking at the person, body facing person
Thinking: "you never let me do anything."
Think instead: think about the fun things parents let me do
Movie theater
Fighting with my brothers (siblings)
I could get yelled at, sent to my bedroom, fight could get worse and someone get mad or hurt.
Using my five senses: see, smell, touch, hear, taste (may not use them all at the same time).
What does it mean to "pay attention?"
Doing things you're not supposed to be doing (Not putting your head down on your desk), not making a lot of noises, not talking to friends, eyes up at the teacher
(Share your answer)
"You don't love me."
"I know they love me, they are just taking care of me (or don't want to see me hurt)"
(Share your own)
Long walking, sometimes up mountains, outside
Hiking
Not taking care of your phone correctly or inappropriate use of phone.
Natural consequence: it can break, scam, can get hacked into, battery does not stay charged and dead when you need.
Given consequences: Parents can take away your phone.
(give your own answers)
This uses color pencils, markers, or crayons with paper
Coloring
What does listening not look like?
Interrupting people talking, not focused on who is talking to me, doing other things/distracted
"I can't do this!"
Instead say: "I can't do this yet, but with practice and help, I can."
What college did Michael Jordan attend?
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
Sitting in the car seat the wrong way or not wearing seatbelt.
Natural consequences: I could get hurt (if there is an accident or mom has to slam on brakes).
Given (by parent/adult): Parents yell, spankings, lose privileges (electronics/toys, special snacks, etc)
(Give your own)You need pencil, crayons, markers, pens, paper and create a picture.
Drawing
Give two examples of what following directions looks like:
1. If it's a group project, listen to your team and teacher, and printed directions
2. When told to do a chore, I do my best!
(name your own)
"I made a mistake."
You play on your phone or computer/tablet this game that is very popular and has hundreds of games within it and you play with other people. It has obbeys, scary games, fun games, and looks like a sideways grey cheeze it.
Roblox
Yelling, screaming, kicking/hitting, having a melt down.
Natural: hurt someone or myself, friends may not want to play with me any more.
Given: grounded, spanking, device taken away, don't get to do fun things like play with toys
Pets
I start doing different things at the same time or when I am supposed to do something else is called...
Getting distracted
"I give up."
Try saying: "I can try a different way" or "I could ask for help."
Consequence when I deny doing something or blame someone/something else.
I get yelled at, time-out, lose electronic time.