In Class
Unexpected Behavior
Suzy asks her friend if they can hang out, but her friend says she can't. Suzy keeps asking her over and over, even though she knows her friend can't. Expected or unexpected behavior?
Unexpected behavior
I throw a ball as hard as I can at someone's head while in exercise.
Unexpected behaviors.
You have to use the bathroom and you walk away from a coworker during a conversation.
Unexpected Behavior. What else could you do?
Name two expected behaviors at BrightStone.
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During a group activity, I pull out my phone and start texting on social media.
Unexpected. Why?
During a work session, I ask the teacher when class will be done, over and over.
Unexpected. You should ask the teacher one time, and then you're expected to be patient will class is over.
What are Unexpected Behaviors?
Unexpected behaviors don't fit the situation and can make others have weird thoughts about us.
You offer to help a coworker carry heavy boxes.
Expected Behavior.
Name three expected behaviors while at home and with your family members.
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Your phone accidentally rings in class, so you immediately silence it and put it away.
Expected Behavior
I sit down quietly and wait for directions from the teacher.
Expected Behavior.
I won the game so I congratulate the other person and say, "Good job!"
Expected Behavior.
You leave your dirty dishes in the lunchroom sink for someone else to clean up.
Unexpected Behavior.
Name three expected behaviors at a restaurant.
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I am bored during morning meeting, so I start talking to the person next to me and we start to laugh loudly while the teacher is talking.
Unexpected Behavior
I tell my friend their new haircut is too short and looks terrible.
Unexpected Behavior.
What are Expected Behaviors??
Expected behaviors are actions that are expected in a given situation and make people have good thoughts about us.
You thank a coworker for helping you finish a task on time.
Expected Behavior.
What kind of behaviors gives people weird or uncomfortable thoughts and feelings about us? Give two examples.
Unexpected Behaviors
A tour is coming through your classroom, and you walk over and start giving hugs to everyone. Expected or unexpected?
Unexpected!
I lay my head down during a work session and take a nap when I am supposed to be working..
Unexpected Behavior.
You are eating lunch with a friend. They suddenly reach over and take some food off your plate and eat it. Expected or Unexpected?
Unexpected.
Steven's coworker would not stop talking to him while he was trying to get his work done. What is an expected behavior he could do to have her stop?
Steven could remain calm and ask his coworker to if they can talk later because he's distracted and having trouble working. If she continues he can move to another area so he can complete his work.
What kind of behavior gives people good thoughts and feelings about us? Give two examples?
Expected Behavior; Respectful of others; Sharing, Gracious/Helpful, ETC.