In Class
Around School
Expected vs Unexpected
At Home
Surprise
100

I stare out the window and purposely ignore my teacher; Expected or Unexpected? What is the outcome? 

Unexpected Behavior, zero for the assignment, call home to parents, poor grades.

100

I run through the hallway because I am late.

Unexpected behavior, the student would likely face more consequences for running in the hallway. 

100

I throw a ball as hard as I can at someone's head while in exercise.

Unexpected behaviors.

100

I share the TV with my family.

Expected Behavior.

100

Name one expected behavior at BrightStone.

_ _ _. 

300

I yell out the answer without raising my hand. 

Unexpected behavior, classroom distraction to peers and teacher. 

300

I want another snack, so I go into the kitchen to ask Erika.

Unexpected.

300

What are Unexpected Behaviors??

 Unexpected behaviors are sitting under your desk, eating with your fingers or playing with your food, burping noisily with no consideration for those around you. Have no concern for others' feelings or boundaries. 

300

When I am asked to help clean, I watch TV instead. Potential Consequence? 

Unexpected Behavior. Consequences: Lose TV/privileges, parents ground you, and still complete the task of cleaning. 

300

Name two expected behaviors while at home and with your family members.

Show respect, listen to others, Help out, etc. 

400

I raise my hand in class and wait for the teacher to call on me.

Expected Behavior, a student following the classroom norms and showing respect to others. 

400

I sit down quietly and wait for directions from the teacher.

Expected Behavior.

400

I won the game so I start calling the other team losers.

Unexpected Behavior. 

400

Ava's dad told her to stop playing her game system because it was time to go to grandma's house. Ava turned off the game.

Expected Behavior. 

400

Name three expected behaviors at a restaurant.

_ _ _.

500

I am bored during a work session, so I talk to the person next to me and we start to laugh loudly. 

Unexpected Behavior

500

While working in a group, someone is laughing at a BrightStone friend, instead of helping his group members.

Unexpected Behavior.

500

What are Expected Behaviors??

Expected behaviors are what they sound like.  Actions that are expected in a given situation such as staying seated at your table, eating your food with your fork, burping quietly, being considerate of others.

500

Tyler's parents told him he needs to turn off his movie as he never completed his chores for the week as he promised. Tyler constantly screamed down to them stating he'll complete them after he finishes this one level. 

Unexpected Behavior. 

500

What kind of behaviors gives people weird or uncomfortable thoughts and feelings about us?

Unexpected Behaviors

1000

The student is arguing with the exercise teacher about starting the class.

Unexpected behavior

1000

I am tired so I lay my head down during a work session and fall asleep.

Unexpected Behavior.

1000

When you act/behave who is truly being affected?

Yourself, People currently around you and your family. (Ripple Effect).

1000

Steven's little sister would not stop bothering him while he was trying to watch a movie. What is an expected behavior he could do to have her stop?

Steven should remain calm and ask his sister to stop as she's distracting him. If she continues to walk away from the situation and go grab his parents to separate them so he can complete his work.

1000

 What kind of behavior gives people good thoughts and feelings about us? Give two examples?

Expected Behavior; Respectful of others; Sharing, Gracious/Helpful, ETC. 

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