Boundaries
What are boundaries?
Limits and rules we set for ourselves
How many houses do we have across Ottawa?
3 – 8 rooms in each house
How many different attachment styles are there?
4
What must you do each time you leave the house?
Sign out! (Don’t forget to sign back in too)
What are the three kinds of boundaries?
Healthy, rigid, and porous
Can you have methadone or suboxone in the house?
No – you can be on these medications, but you need to get your dose daily
What are the types of insecure attachment styles?
Avoidant, anxious, and anxious avoidant
When do weekend passes need to be handed by?
Tuesday
What type of communication do we need to build healthy boundaries?
Assertive communication
What are the rules regarding visitors?
In common areas only, they must be respectful and sober, no one under the age of 18, NO SLEEPOVERS
When are attachment styles formed?
Early childhood between 10-20 months
Where is our emergency meeting spot?
The front of the house at the end of the driveway
This is the key to upholding and setting boundaries
Respect!
What do you have to provide for yourself?
Food, linen, and personal items
What attachment style is usually the product of emotionally unavailable parenting?
Anxious attachment
What time should the assistant cook be awake on hot breakfast days?
By 7:00 am
Why are boundaries important?
They ensure we are safe and outline what is and isn’t acceptable to us
How is the accommodation fee calculated?
Geared to income
What are alternative labels for anxious avoidant attachment?
Fearful or disorganized attachment
This is the only time you are to knock on the office door when it is closed
Emergencies!