Recognizing
Bullying is _________behavior.
Mean or hurtful
Teacher
Parent
Principal
School Counselor
Why is reporting bullying not tattling?
Tattling is trying to get someone in trouble. Reporting means telling an adult in order to keep people safe.
What does refuse mean?
To not let something happen. You say no.
What is a person called when they see or know of bullying happening to someone else?
Bystander
Name an example of bullying.
Hurting someone's feelings, body or belongings.
Saying mean things about someone.
Excluding someone on purpose.
When you report bullying, you need to use a _________ and __________ voice.
strong and respectful
What are the 3 "R's" on the Bullying Poster
Recongize, Report and Refuse
"Stop it. That's bullying."
True or False
A bystander always finds a way to make the bullying stop.
False
Sometimes they make it worse.
Sometimes people put others down in front of others to seem cool or funny. Is it cool or funny to hurt other people?
No, it is mean, unkind, disrespectful and it could be bullying.
In the video we saw, Shawn and Dylan reported bullying to their teacher and it stopped. If Cody and his friends begin to bully Shawn again, what should he do?
Tell his teacher again. Tell the playground supervisor. Keep reporting until it stops.
Every day at lunch, the same two boys walk by and say mean things about your clothes, then they spill your milk. You find a good time to report to the lunchroom supervisior, and you say:
"I need to report bullying."
In the video where Shauna was bullying Addy by kicking her out of her best friend's club, what did Addy do to stop Shauna's bullying?
She reported it to her teacher.
She refused Shauna's bullying by using an assertive voice by telling her to stop.
What is a bystander?
A person who sees or knows that bullying is happening to someone else.
Is this a mean moment, conflict (argument) or bullying?
Elena and Jose both want to be first in lunch line today. Elena says, "You're always first!" Jose yells back, "That's not true. You're always first."
Conflict
Another word for using a strong and respecful voice is being _____________.
Assertive
When you refuse bullying, besides using words what could you also do?
Put your hand up too. (A stop signal.)
A boy in your class has pushed you into the wall really hard many times. Demonstrate how to refuse the bullying.
Face the person and using a strong and respectful voice say "Stop it, that's bullying."
- Stand up for the person being bullied.
- Report the bullying to a caring adult.
- Include the person being bullied.
What is missing? Bullying is mean behavior, on purpose, one sided, when someone has more power and when the behavior is ______________.
- Repeated or happens over and over again
If you report bullying to someone and it doesn't help, what should you do?
You see and hear your friends whispering mean things about a classmate behind her back all the time, what can you do to help stop the bullying?
Tell them to stop in a strong and respectful voice.
Report it to an adult.
Be kind and include the classmate being bullied.
If you are really nervous about refusing bullying, what can you do?
Practice with a caring adult
Report the bullying to a caring adult.
How can a bystander make the bullying worse?
Join in, laugh or not report.