BULLY OR CONFLICT
Two kids both want the same swing and start arguing. Is this bullying or a conflict
What is bullying?
Repeated hurtful behavior toward someone.
Name one safe adult at school you can talk to if someone is bullying you.
Teacher, principal, counselor, etc.)
What do we call a person who stands by and watches bullying happen without doing anything?
Bystander
What can you say to a classmate who looks lonely at recess?
"Do you want to play with me?"
A student keeps calling another student mean names every day, even after being asked to stop. Bullying or conflict?
Bully
True or False: Bullying can happen more than one time.
True
What is a strong, clear phrase you can say to a bully to tell them to stop?
"Stop it," "Leave me alone," or "That's not nice.")
What do you call someone who stands up for others and helps stop bullying?
Upstander
A classmate drops all their crayons on the floor. What could you do?
Help them pick them up.
Two friends disagree about what game to play at recess. Bullying or conflict?
Conflict
Name one way bullying can hurt someone.
It can hurt their feelings, make them feel scared, sad, lonely, etc.
If you are a upstander to bullying what do you do?
Tell the bully to stop, get an adult, and get the victim away from the bully
Be a _____ not a Bully
Buddy
You notice a classmate sitting alone at lunch. What could you do to show kindness?
Invite them to sit with you or ask them to join you.
A student keeps leaving another student out of games on purpose and encourages others to leave them out too. Bullying or conflict?
Bully
If someone keeps teasing the same person over and over, could that be bullying?
Yes
True or False: If you see bullying, you should laugh so the bully doesn't turn on you.
False
Name one of the four upstander strategies from the video.
Be a Buddy, Interrupt, Speak Out, or Tell Someone.
You accidentally hurt someone's feelings. What should you do?
Apologize and try to make it right.
Name three things that can help us identify bullying.
It is repeated, it is hurtful, and there is a power imbalance/difficulty for the targeted student to stop it.
A student keeps making fun of another student every day. The student asks them to stop, but they keep doing it. What clues tell you this could be bullying?
It is repeated, hurtful, and the student is having a hard time making it stop.
If your friend tells you they are being bullied, should you promise to keep it a secret?
No. Tell a trusted adult who can help.
What is the difference between tattling and telling/reporting?
Tattling is trying to get someone in trouble. Telling is trying to get someone help.
Name three different things that make someone a good friend
Sharing, listening, helping, being kind, playing together, etc.