Empathy
Strategies to Handle Bullying
Upstanders
Act It Out
Asking for Help
100
Empathy is often comparing to putting yourself in another person's ______.
shoes
100
What is the name of the strategy you use to not react or respond to the bully? You provide no eye contact and no verbal response. You might pretend you can't hear what they're saying.
Ignore
100
What is the difference between a bystander and an upstander?
Bystanders stand by and watch bullying happen without doing anything to help or perhaps joining in. Upstanders stand up for those being bullied.
100
Act out the use of the "Ignore" strategy with a partner who calls you "stupid."
Award points if student did not react or respond to the comment and did not give eye contact or a verbal response.
100
Good people at home to talk to about bullying are...
Parents and Grandparents
200
How would you show empathy towards someone who is crying?
There are many answers! Your teacher will award points for an acceptable answer.
200
The "Stop and Walk Away" strategy is when you tell the bully "stop" or "leave me alone" in a calm but firm voice and you walk away before he/she can respond. This strategy helps you be assertive. What does it mean to be assertive?
To stand up for yourself in a respectful, non-aggressive way.
200
What is the upstanders job? Is it to stop the bully or to help the person being bullied?
Help the person being bullied
200
Act out the use of the "So?" strategy with a classmate who makes fun of you for not having an xbox or playstation.
Award points if the student responded with "So?" in a non-aggressive way.
200
Asking for help does not show weakness, it shows _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
strength
300
How would you show empathy towards a classmate who tripped and fell in the hallway?
There are many correct answers! Your teacher will give you points for an appropriate answer.
300
The sentence: "I feel frustrated when you call me names. Please don't call me that." is an example of:
I Message
300
An upstander might tell the person to _ _ _ _ _ _ the bully.
Ignore
300
Act out the use of the I Message with a classmate who gently and playfully punches you in the shoulder.
Award points if student used the sentence: I feel _______ when you punch me. Please _________.
300
Deans can help you when you are being bullied. What are the names of the two Deans at Parker.
Mrs. Bayles and Mr. McNair
400
How would you show empathy for your teacher when students continue to interrupt him/her during instruction?
There are many correct answers. Your teacher will award points for an appropriate answer.
400
Reframing is a strategy where you act like the negative comment was a compliment. Give an example of something you could say to reframe a negative comment by a bully.
Thanks for your opinion! Thank you for noticing! That is such kind thing to say!
400
An upstander might ask the person if he or she is _ _.
OK
400
Act out the use of the "Respond with a Compliment" strategy with a classmate who tells you that your hair looks stupid.
Award points if student responded with a compliment towards the classmate, delivered in a non-aggressive way.
400
School Social Workers can help you with problems related to bullying. What are the names of the two Parker School Social Workers?
Miss Schneider and Miss West
500
What is the definition of empathy?
the ability to identify, understand, and respond thoughtfully to the feelings and perspectives of others
500
What is the name of the strategy where you say something to yourself (in your head) to help you feel better and stay in control?
Positive self-talk
500
An upstander can be a _ _ _ _ _ _ to the person.
friend
500
Act out the use of "Positive Self Talk" (saying something to yourself to help you feel better and stay in control) when a classmate bumps into you while you pass them in the classroom.
Award points if student appropriately demonstrated "Positive Self Talk"
500
What is the bullying hotline number?
647-7031
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