Rude, Mean, Bullying
If something is done once and on accident, it is:
Rude
When you are letting an adult know because you want to get someone in trouble, you are:
Tattling
What method did we discuss to stand up for yourself if you are being bullied?
Stop, talk, and walk method
This can be done during the bullying or after it happens. As the up-stander, you find someone trusted to report the situation to. What method of being an up-stander is this?
Tell Someone
If something is done only a few times and on purpose it is:
Mean
When you are letting an adult know because you want to keep someone safe, you are:
Telling
If standing up for yourself doesn't work, the next thing you should do is:
Tell an adult
Showing the bully that the victim has a friend is which method of being an up-stander?
Be a buddy
If something is done repeatedly and on purpose, it is:
Bullying
If something is dangerous and you let an adult know, you are:
Telling
Explain the stop, talk, and walk method.
Stop: Turn around and confront the bully
Talk: Say something that defends yourself. (This CANNOT be something mean). Ex. I don't like to play with people who make others feel bad.
Walk: Walk away, do not give the bully a chance to respond. This avoids conflict.
Telling the bully that what they are doing is wrong is which form of being an up-stander?
Speak Out
Someone cuts in front of you in line to stand next to their friend. Rude, mean, or bullying?
If you can solve something on your own and you let an adult know, you are:
Tattling
Give an example of the stop, talk, and walk method.
Answers will vary.
Points will be awarded for students providing an appropriate response to a bullying incident. (No mean come-backs)
Talking to the victim of the bullying allows the victim a way to get away from the situation. What method of being an up-stander is this?
Interrupt
Someone says they want to play with someone else at recess because you aren't good at the game they are playing.
Mean
Name the five differences between tattling and telling:
Telling/Tattling
1. Dangerous/Harmless
2. On purpose/On accident
3. Need help from an adult/Can solve on your own
4. Important/Unimportant
5. Keeping someone safe/Getting someone in trouble
True or false:
When using the stop, talk, and walk method, you can say anything you want to the bullying to get them to stop.
Explain your answer.
False: You should only say things that are standing up for yourself or asking the person to stop. No insults, etc.
Name the four ways you can be an upstander:
1. Be a buddy
2. Interrupt
3. Speak out
4. Tell Someone