Recognizing Bullying
What is one of the 3 R's of bullying?
Hint: think of the bullying posters that are in the hallways.
Recognize, Report, Refuse
Who are three people that you can report bullying to?
Teachers, parents, Mrs. Christiansen, Ms. Furlan, Mrs. Mattsen, recess or café staff, etc.
What does it mean to refuse bullying?
Not letting something happen either by saying no or using a signal to tell the person to stop.
What is a bystander?
Someone who sees or knows about bullying happening to someone else.
The difference between rude and mean is that the hurtful behavior is _______________.
Intentional
Name two of the three "Four Dubs of Reporting?"
Who, what, where, and when
When refusing bullying you should be __________ and not aggressive.
Assertive
What are two ways that a bystander/upstander can help someone who is being bullied?
Report the bullying, help the person report the bullying, stand up for the person being bullied, always be respectful, kind, and include everyone.
There are four things that make they way someone is being treated bullying. The first two are that it is hurtful and intentional. What are the second two requirements?
It happens over and over again, and the person will not stop even when asked or shown that it upsets them.
When and why should you report bullying?
Report right away when you notice it happening to yourself or someone else. Bullying is a big problem that is not okay, and you need an adult to help.
What is something you can say to someone who is bullying you or someone else?
What you are doing is not okay, it is not right to treat people that way, what you are doing is bullying, if you don't stop I will report what you are doing to an adult, etc.
What is it called when you try to feel or understand what someone else is feeling?
Empathy
What are three of the four types of bullying?
Physical, Verbal, Cyber, and Relational
If the bullying continues after you report it, what should you do.
Report again to the same adult or a different adult.
What is a reason that someone might not tell the person to stop bullying?
They are worried that they will be bullied, they are afraid it will make it worse, they are not sure if what the person is doing is bullying, they don't know what to say, they want to see what will happen next, they don't want to get involved, the person bullying is their friend.
How can someone be a negative bystander (someone who makes the situation worse)?
Joining in on the bullying, doing nothing, not standing up to the person bullying, etc.
Bullying can hurt three things. Name two of those things.
Your body, feelings, or things.
How is tattling different than bullying?
Tattling is when you tell an adult about a small problem to get someone in trouble. Reporting is letting an adult know about a big problem like when someone is in danger, stranger danger, or when someone has a weapon.
What does it mean to be assertive when refusing bullying?
Facing the person, standing up tall, and using a strong, respectful voice to tell the person to stop.
You see someone being bullied, but they don't report or refuse the bullying. What might you say to them to help?
What they are doing to you is not okay and is bullying. You don't deserve to be treated that way. If you want, I can go with you to report the bullying to an adult. If you don't want to report it, I can talk to an adult for you so they can help.