Recognizing Bullying
What are the 3 R's of Second Step?
Recognize
Report
Refuse
If you are being bullying and you have told your teacher that it still keeps happening, what should you do?
Report to that adult, or another adult, that the bullying is still happening.
When you refuse bullying, should you be assertive or aggressive?
Assertive
There are four things that need to happen for an interaction to be bullying. Name two of the four requirements.
Hurtful
Intentional
Happens over and over again
Does not stop even when you ask them to stop
Who are three people that you could report to if you are being bullied?
Your Teacher
Mrs. Mattsen
Mrs. Sutton or Mrs. Simm
Your family
Recess Teachers (Mr. Jones, Mrs. Stephens, Ms. Vera)
Mrs. Klaas, Ms. Melanie, Mrs. Mahoney, Mrs. Haines
What does it mean to be assertive?
To not let something happen
To face the person, stand up straight with your shoulders back, and use a strong, respectful voice
What are three of the four types of bullying?
Physical
Verbal
Cyber
Relational
What is one reason that someone might not report that they are being bullied or that someone else is being bullied?
They are afraid of the bully
They think others will think that you are tattling or "snitching"
They think that it will only get worse
They are worried that they might be bullied
What are some reasons a person might bully others?
They have been bullied before
They don't realize they are bullying others
They don't feel good about themselves
Bullying is unfair and one-sided. Give an example of a situation that is NOT bullying.
It is back and forth like arguing or fighting
Happens only once or twice
Stops when you ask them to stop
What is the difference between tattling and reporting?
Tattling is when you tell on someone for a small problem that you could handle yourself, or to get someone in trouble. Reporting is when you have a big problem, like bullying, that you need an adult to help solve.
There are two types of bystanders- upstanders and negative bystanders. Give an example of how someone could be a negative bystander.
They join in
They laugh at what is happening
They do nothing
Is this an example of bullying? Why or why not.
While at recess, Mrs. Mattsen tells you that you are not allowed to play with her and her friends. You have told Mrs. Mattsen that is not fair and she sees that it hurts your feelings, but still does not allow you to play. This happens at most recesses.
Yes. Mrs. Mattsen is being intentionally hurtful and continues to leave you out. This also happens over and over again even after you asked her to stop.
What are three of the Four Dubs of Reporting?
When
Where
Who
What
There are four ways in which upstanders can be powerful in helping to stop bullying. What are two of the four things an upstander can do?
Report or help report the bullying
Stand up for someone and refuse the bullying
Be respectful and kind
Include everyone and help get the person away from the person who is bullying them