True & False
If you are bullied it is best to handle it alone?
False
A friends says to you one time "your shirt is ugly."
Teasing
You see a girl being teased at recess.
Tell a teacher Provide support and empathy Remove the girl from the teasing
How might the target feel when he/she is being bullied?
sad, mad, lonely, embarrassed
Define bully
A person who purposely tries to hurt others by: · Making them feel uncomfortable. · Hurting them by kicking, hitting, pushing, tripping, etc. · Name-calling. · Spreading nasty rumors.
Bullies have trouble making friends?
False
At lunch, a classmates steals your food every day.
Bullying
our best friend has recently started to pick on another student in the class. At first, you thought it was funny, but lately, the teasing has gotten meaner and meaner. You can tell that the student is becoming more and more upset, but the other kids in the class think it is funny.
Tell a teacher Talk to your best friend about his/her behavior Support the target
What are some different types of bullying?
Cyberbullying, verbal bullying, emotional bullying, physical bullying
Define henchman.
A person who does not start the bullying but supports the bully and his/her actions.
Sometimes bystanders are afraid to report the bullying? Bonus Question WHY?
True.
Bonus: Because they are afraid of backlash.
You and a friend are frequenlty "play fighting" at recess
Teasing becasue you are both equally engaging in the behavior
What is a positive way to handle a bully?
Tell an adult, ignore the behavior, stand up for yourself in a positive way, get help, and power in numbers
What can we do as a class to stop bullies?
Help our peers understand the importance of what they are doing to there class mates.
Define bystander
A person who watches bullying happen or hears about it and does nothing to stop the bullying.
It takes courage to report bullying to an adult?
True
A classmate calls you an unkind word one time
Teasing
A group of your friends are talking negatively about another girl in your class. You think this boy is nice and consider him to be a friend
Ask them to stop Continue to be friends with the boy
How can a bystander become a defender?
If you see someone getting bullied, then you can go up to the victim and help them get away from the bully or if you see someone get bullied you can tell an adult about the situation.
Define target
The person who is the victim of teasing, harassment, and bullying.
Frequent bullying can have a long-term affect on the target?
True
What is the difference between teasing and bullying?
Teasing is when both people are joking and neither gets their feelings hurt, and bullying is when it goes on more than once, it’s impactful and hurts someone, there’s a power imbalance, and it’s intentional (on purpose)
One of your friends frequently spreads rumors about you, tells you that your clothes are ugly, and says she won't be your friend. You are confused by this behavior because you thought this girl was really your friend.
Tell your friend that her behavior is unkind Ask your friend to stop Stop being friends with this girls
Define empathy
The ability to understand how another person feels and why the person feels that way.
Define ally
The person who supports and provides empathy to the target.