Recognize
What is one way a bully can have power?
more people, older, taller, etc.
Who is one person you can report to at our school?
Ms. Kelsey
What does refuse mean?
tell the bully to stop
What is a bystander?
someone who sees bullying happening
What is 1 of the R's
recognize, report, refuse
If two people are calling each other mean names is that bullying?
No, not one sided
What does report mean?
Tell a trusted adult
Why do you not yell at the bully when you are refusing?
it will make them mad and the problem bigger
What is one way you can be a positive bystander?
report, refuse
Is it bullying when Joe calls you mean names every time he walks by you in the hall?
Yes, over and over, on purpose
When the person won't stop being mean to you even after you ask them which part of recognize is that?
over and over
if the 1st adult you report to doesn't help you what should you do?
Tell another adult till one helps you.
If the bullying still does not stop after you refuse it what should you do?
report to a teacher
What is one way you can be a negative bystander
do nothing, join the bully
A k3 student laughs at a G5 student every time they see them. Is this bullying?
No the K3 student doesn't have power over the G5 student and probably doesn't know what they are doing.
If Sally trips and falls into Bobby knocking him over in the hallway, is that bullying?
no, not on purpose, and not over and over
What kind of a voice should you report in?
Assertive- clear, firm, and respectful
What kind of a voice should you refuse the bully in?
assertive- clear, firm, respectful
You see Joe bullying Eric and no it is wrong, but Joe is so big and scary that you don't want him to bully you so you decide to ignore it. Is this a negative or positive bystander and why?
negative, you could report to an adult. you aren't helping the problem go away.
Ron is always making up no rules to make the game at recess turn out his way. Bob gets fed up with this finally and pushes Ron over. Is this bullying?
2 sides, not over and over
What are the 3 things that help you recognize bullying?
over and over, power, 1 sided
When you report what is the 1st thing you should say?
I need to report bullying!
What do you say when you refuse the bully?
Please stop bullying me. It is not nice and I do not like it.
You see Amy and Maria bullying Mary and have empathy for how Mary must feel. You decide today at recess to ask Mary if you can play with her. She is so happy. Other kids join in with you guys. Amy and Maria are on the side watching in disbelief. Is this a positive or negative bystander and why?
Positive bystander- because you are befriending the person being bullied and taking away the bullies power.
Name 3 ways someone can be a bully?
excluding others, hurting them physically, calling them mean names/ words, talking about them behind their back, making fun of them, etc.