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Enter through the Exit door
"The Joke isn't funny anymore"
"Rumor has it"
Emotional Feeeelings
100
This involves; Asking something about the other person, Answering your own questions, sharing the conversation and Find common interests.
What is the steps for Trading Information
100
________ for pause, or transition moment. or receptiveness from the group. have a reason to _______ with a common interest or comment
What is Wait, and Join
100
What is the first step to most of the lessons in IOP?
What is Keeping your cool
100
!!!!!DAILY DOUBLE!!!!! -Avoid being friends with gossips -Do not provoke gossips -Don’t spread rumors about other people
What are the Steps to Avoid Being the Target of Rumors & Gossip
100
Turn this negative thought into a positive one: You have to do your homework before you can use the computer. Your parents never let you use the computer BEFORE you do homework.
(Multiple answers may apply)
200
In a conversation with someone you have never met before, they tell you about their cockroach infested living room!
What is getting to personal too quickly
200
Looking at the person you are speaking with on occasion. Not staring and not averting eye-contact. This is called________
What is Gaze Aversion
200
If no one is laughing at your joke then it's time to look at your____________.
What is Humor Feedback
200
-Don’t show that you are upset -Don’t confront the source of the rumor/gossip -Avoid the source of the gossip -Act amazed -Spread a rumor about yourself
What are the Steps for When You Are the Target of Rumors & Gossip
200
On the scale of emotional intensity (what we use during check-in's) What is a 10?
What is Rev'ved Up
300
This involves: -Asking follow-up questions -Don’t be a conversation hog -Don’t be an interviewer -Don’t be repetitive -Listen and be able to answer your's, and the other person's, questions. -Don’t criticize or tease -Use good volume control -Be serious -Have good body boundaries -Make good eye contact/check in
What are the steps for having a 2-way conversation
300
Examples of this would be; Waving, frowning, smiling and slouching.
What is Non-verbal communication
300
When you are apologizing during a disagreement, you are really apologizing for ___________.
What is apologizing for having the disagreement
300
1. Lay Low 2. Follow the crowd 3. Change your look to change your rep. 4. Own up to your previous reputation 5. Find a new group or crowd
What are the Steps To Change a Bad Reputation:
300
On the scale of emotional intensity (what we use in check-in's) this would represent a 1?
What is Shut down
400
Sara and Lucy planned a get-together for Friday afternoon. Now that it's Thursday Lucy is waiting on a confirmation text. Lucy calls twice, leaving one message to have Sara give her a call back to confirm the get-together. After not hearing from Sara, Lucy decides to make new plans with a different friend.
What is The 2-Message Rule
400
Before joining a conversation, see if they are speaking kindly, and the subject is something you can contribute to (are they talking above your head?). This is called:______________.
What is Watch and Listen
400
1-Keep your cool 2-Listen to the other person first. 3-Repeat what the other person said. 4-Explain your side 5-Say you are sorry. 6- Try to solve the problem: 7-Tell what you will do differently. 8-Ask the other person what he/she wants you to do. 9-Suggest what you want the other person to do. 10-If you cannot solve the problem, keep your cool.
What are The steps to Handling a Disagreement
400
Examples of bad reputations based on not having a daily ______________routine could be; They have"Dirt under their nails They wear the same things every day They don't care about how they look
What is "Hygiene"
400
Donna says we should be ____________ by people.
What is Fascinated
500
An example of this would be; "I have to get home for my family's dinner plans." Or "I don't want to be late for class, I better get going."
What is a Cover Story
500
1-Check for signs of interest in the group 2- If the group isn’t interested Move on. 3- Keep your cool 4- Look away 5- Turn away 6- Walk away
What is Steps for slipping out of a conversation
500
Examples of these would be; "Dirty Jokes"] Inside Jokes Telling jokes that arn't age appropriate
What is Things to avoid when first getting to know someone.
500
You should never confront the___________.
What is The Gossip
500
Examples of these are; Deep Breathing Using positive affirmations Meditation listening to music Reading/writing & journaling
What are Coping Skills
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