What is the Effect
You are rude to your teacher.
Lose privileges, get in trouble, her your teacher's feelings, you don't get help
Refusing to do work
too hard, I need help with it, I'm tired or hungry, I just don't want to do it. I'm frustrated
Refuse to eat my snack/lunch
Get hungry, can’t focus, get angry, make poor choices, have consequences
My class is playing a Kahoot. I get 4 wrong in a row. I’m frustrated and stop playing. What is your part?
I didn’t let my anger control me but made a choice just to watch instead of doing something that would make me more upset.
Everyone name one strategy that helps them calm down
Breathing, taking a break, eat a snack, drawing, listening to music, fidgets
You refuse to do your work.
Work during free time, don't get help from your teacher, get behind, miss out on fun things,
Refusing help
I'm too mad to accept help, I'm embarrassed, I don't want help
Not participating in social skills
Won’t learn a new skill to help me, make the same mistakes, get frustrated, get in trouble
My friend wouldn’t stop asking me to prank someone. I decided to do it and then we both got in trouble. What’s my part?
I should have not pranked the kid. If my friend wouldn’t stop I should have asked for help.
Tell your 3 PAG teachers something you appreciate about them
We are so proud of all of you!
Lose your temper
Kids are scared of you, you lose friends, a bad reputation, lonely, won't get invited to things, leave your classroom, everyone looks at you
Fighting on the soccer field at recess
Someone cheated, they don't give me the ball, someone hit me with the ball, I missed a goal, they said mean things
Not paying attention to the lesson
You won’t know what to do, unable to get your work done, get behind, have to work during free time, get mad
I’m on break and the timer goes off. I tell my teacher I need more time and don’t get off. She is now frustrated. Why is she frustrated?
I didn’t get off my break. I broke her trust.
Everyone in the group says something they are proud of this year (games & recess don’t count)
Everyone has something to be proud of.
Tantrum or crying in class
disrupt everyone from learning, kids will make fun of you, no one will want to be your friend, miss out on things because you re behind in work
Crumble my work in Art class
I don't think it is good enough, I made a mistake, I'm angry, I want to start over, I didn't have enough time
Rude comment to someone in your class
Hurt thier feeeling, they don’t wnat to be your friend, other kids don’t want to be your friend, bad repetition, you are lonely
I don’t know how to do my work. I break a pencil, tear my paper and go under my desk. What’s my part?
Didn’t ask for help, and maybe I wasn’t paying attention, I was pulled out during the lesson, didn’t use my calming strategies
Give an individualized compliment to everyone on the opposite team
Saying kind words and using specific examples
You don't ask for help when you need it (put your head down, ignore teachers)
Don't get the help you need, people could think you are being rude, fall behind, you could get frustrated, could lead to anger, makes the problem bigger
Missing recess
I got in trouble, I didn’t do my work, I left early, I got sick
Ignoring the teacher
Teacher gets frustrated, you get frustrated, you get stuck, you have a consequence
I got tagged in PE and then someone bumped into me. I let out a scream and went to PAG. What’s my part?
Although I screamed I made a good choice to go to PAG to calm down.
What are the 3 ways not to make excuses for your behavior?
Own your part
Cause & effect
Solve the problem