My friend tripped and fell. I was helping her get up and someone passed by and said, "Ha look at these LOSERS"
I got up and told him, "you have a problem?" and I push him. We then begin fighting.
Whats a better way to solve this?
Using our hands for violence i NEVER the answer. We can tell him, "Hey don't say that." But if he keeps arguing, we need to walk away
Its hard to walk away but fighting and arguing isnt the answer
He can take deep breaths to calm down
Ask mom if he can do half now and half later
Ask a sibling for help
Just do it and then relax after
What could I have done instead
*took deep breaths and count to 10
*calm down
* ask to play something else
* say good game and walk away
I am having a bad day and feeling REALLY mad! I want to punch the wall or yell at someone.
I can tell people to give me space, take a break, and do activities that calm me down.