Understanding Self and Others
Name two ways you can tell when someone is mad.
Crying, looking down, wanting to be alone, quiet, frown...etc.
Give an example of a "what question"
"What did you do this weekend?"
"What is your favorite movie?"
Name a time you cooperated with others.
Group project, recess game, etc.
If you are feeling REALLY mad, what can you do before talking to the person you are mad at?
Move it out, Breathe it out
What is something you can tell yourself to feel better after losing?
I can try again next time
There are lots of other things that I'm good at.
That team was really good.
I can be sad for myself but I can also be happy for others.
Name two ways someone might show they are mad.
Scrunched face, throwing things, yelling, hands in a fist.
Give an example of an "invitation question"
"Would you like to play with me?"
"Would you like to sit with me?"
What does "do your part" mean when cooperating with others?
Following through with what you are responsible to do.
What is an example of a small problem?
What is one way you can be a "good" winner?
Saying "good game," congratulating your team, etc
Facial Expressions, body language, tone of voice.
Say Kind words
Wait your Turn
Respect people's space and belongings?
Give an example of a compliment.
"I like your shoes"
"Nice throw!"
What do you do if you are ready to resolve a conflict but your classmate is not?
Play with someone else, talk with an adult, give the classmate space.
What is one way to be a "good" loser.
Saying "good game," clapping for the other team, giving yourself positive self-talk
What does social awareness mean?
The ability to notice how our behavior impacts someone else.
What is one of the three behaviors that show you are listening?
Brain focused
Listening
Follow-up questions
Define "Cooperation"
Working together to reach shared goals
Give an example of an "I feel statement"
"I feel lonely and sad when my friends don't spend time with me."
What is the difference between responding and reacting?
Responding is acting in a calm and thoughtful way.
Reacting is acting without pausing. It may be unkind.
Understanding how I think and act towards others.
What are two of the three ways we can establish relationships?
Ask Questions
Listen Well
Be Kind
-Take Turns
-Share and Help
-Compliment
-Do your part
What are two of the three choices when resolving conflict according to "the tree of choices"?
Roots: Type of the problem
Heart: Identifying your feeling
Branches: Talk it out, Move it out, Breathe it out
What are two of the three steps you can take when you are disappointed by losing a game?
2. Think ("everything is okay."
3. Talk using kind words