Self-Perception Basics
Shame vs. Guilt
Origins of Shame
Thought Patterns & Beliefs
Breaking the Cycle
100

This term refers to how you view and evaluate yourself.

What is self-perception?

100

This emotion focuses on behavior and can lead to growth.

What is guilt?

100

Shame can begin during this stage of life.

What is early childhood?

100

“I’m not good enough” is an example of this.

What is a negative self-belief?

100

This skill involves separating actions from identity.

What is cognitive reframing or separating behavior from self?

200

Two things that shape self-perception over time.

What are life experiences and relationships?

200

This emotion targets identity and creates feelings of “something is wrong with me.”

What is shame?

200

Being constantly criticized or ignored can lead to this emotional experience.

What is shame?

200

Shame often operates at this level of awareness.

What is beneath the surface/unconscious?

200

“I failed, so I am a failure” is an example of this distortion.

What is overgeneralization/self-labeling?

300

Positive influences on self-perception.

What is encouragement?

300

“I made a mistake” reflects this emotion.

What is guilt?

300

Unrealistic expectations can contribute to developing this.

What is negative self-beliefs?

300

Avoiding situations due to fear of judgment is an example of this.

What is avoidance behavior?

300

A healthier reframe for failure.

What is “I made a mistake and can learn from it”?

400

Negative experiences that can damage self-perception.

What are criticism, rejection, or failure?

400

“I am a mistake” reflects this emotion.

What is shame?

400

Repeated rejection can lead someone to believe this about themselves.

What is “I am unworthy”?

400

This cycle happens when avoidance reinforces negative beliefs.

What is the shame cycle?

400

Why is avoiding challenges harmful long-term?

What is because it reinforces shame and limits growth?

500

This part of self-perception includes beliefs about worth, abilities, and identity.

What are core beliefs about self?

500

Why is guilt considered more helpful than shame?

What is because it promotes learning instead of self-judgment?

500

What does it mean to “internalize” experiences?

What is taking external messages and believing them as truth?

500

Why do negative beliefs feel true even when they are not?

What is because they are repeatedly reinforced over time?

500

This process involves questioning whether beliefs are accurate or helpful.

What is cognitive restructuring/self-reflection?

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