Basic Needs
I want people to like me
What is a sign of Love & Belonging need
How many times do I have to tell you to pick up your clothes
What is "nagging"
The only behavior I can control is my own
What is an axiom of CT
It's 40 degrees outside
Real World
I am very competitive
What is a sign of the Power need
If you get don't get your homework done in time, you won't be having ice cream this evening
What is "bribing" or "threatening"
While you're acting, you're thinking, and leads to feeling/physiology
What is Total Behavior
I see a glass that is half full
What is my chosen perceived world
My bills are always paid on time
What is a sign of the Survival need
You don't like the movie I picked, then what would you like to watch?
What is "negotiating differences"
no choice, can't, make...
What are "no, no" terms in Choice Theory
Money in a savings account
What is Quality World
Riding a motorcycle with the wind in my hair
What is a sign of the Freedom need
You will be sitting at the table until you eat all your brussels sprouts
What is "punishing"
Friend to friend, teacher to teach, helper to helpee, manager to worker, parents to children are examples of
Relationships
pictures of nouns we believe are need satisfying
What is our Quality World
I want to go on an adventure
What is the Fun need
You are going to your first party tonight and I know I've given you enough information to make good choices and hope you have a good time.
What is "supporting"
Need satisfying environment, usefulness, clear guidelines
What are conditions of quality
The real world is what I see it as