Family Names
The name of my step-dad
Charlie / Charles Evans
My birthday
September 9th, 2003
The name of my favorite silly little "social" app
Grindr
The department I currently work in at the YMCA
Membership
The name of my mother (including her maiden name
BobbiJo Turner Evans
The year I graduated high school
2020
The name of the kind of therapy I was made to attend after coming home from college
Conversion / reparative therapy
The number of times I ask for a man's name before hooking up with him
Never
The first position I took at the YMCA
Summer camp counselor
The name of my sister (including her married name)
Adriana Jo-Lee (or AJ) Dow Bridges
The age I could have graduated high school
14
The action my mom would regularly take before I graduated high school
Read all of my personal messages
The craziest place I have hooked up with a man
In the middle of the woods
The craziest reason I have seen someone get kicked out of the Y
Wearing underwear in the pool
The name of my biological father
Peter Dow
The number of instruments I have played at a beginner level or greater
9 (piano, guitar, electric bass, upright bass, cello, viola, violin, clarinet, drum set)
The person who said I would never be a good enough musician to make it in the music industry
My parent's pastor
The length of the longest situationship I have held
One month
The nickname I was given by a member while I was eating out (and off the clock)
"One-beer queer"
The name of my cousin who showed up for David's 19th birthday party
CJ Butler
The total number of sports I played growing up
3 (street hockey, soccer, baseball)
The responsibility I was given after skipping a grade at seven years old
Tutoring my sister
The total number of men I have technically kissed in this friend group
3
The first person I talked to at the Y who eventually led me to this group
Shane