Friends & Peer Pressure
How can you tell if someone is a bad influence?
Encouraging bad behavior, making decisions for you, allowing you to do patterns that are not yourself.
Why does high school actually matter for your future?
High school matters because it builds your habits, skills, and choices that shape your future opportunities like college, careers, and personal growth.
What habits do you think help students succeed in high school?
Staying organized, managing time well, completing work on time, asking for help when needed, and making positive choices.
What are you most excited about when it comes to high school?
Your answer... TRUTHFULLY
Would you rather always feel understood or always feel appreciated?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.
What makes someone a real friend vs. just someone you hang out with?
A real friend respects you, supports you, and is there for you even when it’s not convenient—while someone you just hang out with is around mainly for fun but may not show loyalty or care when it matters.
Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
Your answer.
What can help you stay organized with more classes and homework?
By using a planner or calendar, keeping materials organized, and setting aside regular time to complete assignments and study.
What are you most nervous about?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY
Would you rather get caught doing something wrong or feel guilty but no one finds out?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.
What would you do if a friend pressures you to do something you’re not comfortable with?
Say no clearly, stick to your boundaries, suggest a different option, and distance yourself if the pressure continues.
What’s one thing you can start doing now to set yourself up for success?
Start building consistent positive habits, like staying organized, managing your time well, and making responsible choices every day.
What would you do if you start failing a class?
Ask for help right away, talk to the teacher, adjust your study habits, and stay consistent with completing assignments.
DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP!
What kind of person do you want to be known as in high school?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY
Would you rather change the past or be able to see into the future?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.
How do you handle drama without making things worse?
Handle drama by staying calm, not spreading it, addressing it directly if needed, and walking away when it’s not worth your energy.
The goal isn’t to “win” the situation, it’s to keep it from getting bigger and protect your peace.
What kind of life do you want after high school?
Your answer.
Who can you go to for help if you're struggling?
A teacher, counselor, parent, or a trusted friend.
OR
Your answer.
What are 3 goals you want to accomplish your freshman year?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.
Example:
Get good grades, stay involved in activities, and build positive friendships.
Would you rather lose your phone or have all your text messages leaked to the public?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.
What kind of friend do you want to be?
A supportive, trustworthy, and respectful friend who listens, stays loyal, and encourages others to make good choices.
OR Your answer.
What does “success” look like to you?
Success means reaching your goals, being proud of who you are, and living a balanced, meaningful life—not just money or status.
How is high school different from middle school (what do you expect)?
Your answer... TRUTHFULLY
What motivates you to try harder when things get tough?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.
Example:
My goals, my future, and the desire to improve and prove to myself that I can succeed.
Would you rather be forgotten after you die or be remembered for something terrible you have done?
Your answer.. TRUTHFULLY.