Thought, Feeling, or Behavior?
Someone might feel this way when...
Thinking Errors
Coping Skills for Change
Rules, Tools, and Targets for Change
100
Angry
What is a feeling?
100
... their family pet died.
What is sad?
100
Things are either good or bad, high or low, etc.
What is Polarized Thinking (Black & White)?
100

Creating a plan to achieve future desire.

What is goal setting?

100

A thinking pattern or thought habit that is already formed in our heads. Your initial thought

What is Automatic thoughts?

200
Clenching my fists.
What is a behavior?
200

... they got a promotion.

What is happy, excited, proud, etc.

200
Focus on what is and isn't "Fair"
What is the Fallacy of Fairness?
200

You can say this word to interrupt the automatic thought

What is STOP?

200

Name the 3 stages of change.

What is challenge, commitment, and ownership?

300
Scared.
What is a feeling?
300

... their friend bailed last minute for plans.

What is angry, betrayed, upset, etc.

300
"I should have studied more... then I would have passed my test."
What is Shoulds?
300
In for 4, out for 4. In for 4, out for 4.
What is deep breathing?
300

A value or idea used to judge or evaluate outside events, situations, people, or ourselves; bonds you to outside events

What is a belief?

400
"I want to smack her"
What is a thought?
400

... they feel like the situation is "unfair."

What is upset, agitated, helpless, angry?

400

Only focusing on the negatives and filtering out the positives.

What is mental filtering?

400

Reflecting on people, places, things that you are happy for in your life.

What is expressing gratitude?

400

"Do or die" view of ourselves; a belief that can continue to lead us to bad outcomes that we continue to hold on to.

What is a belief clutch?

500
Yelling at someone
What is a behavior?
500

... they are in a healthy relationship.

What is content, happy, secure, etc.

500
Magnifying or Minimizing... A small problem becomes something huge and out of control.
What is Catastrophizing?
500

A way to take time to reflect and to process how the change process is going.

What is journaling?

500

Name 3 ways you can be more mindful of your thoughts and how they may influence our emotions and behaviors.

What is meditation, journaling, engaging in active self-reflection, checking the facts, etc. Answers will vary.

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