"Life is only misery"
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking
"I will never be happy"
Examples: "I may be unhappy now but that will pass. I have been happy before and I will be happy again."
"My sponsor would feel burdened if I called him/her late at night"
What is Mind Reading
I should give my friend money because he asked me for it.
Examples: "A request is not an obligation" OR "Caring about my friend doesn't mean I have to give money"
This is another term for Cognitive Distortions.
What is Stinkin' Thinkin'
"If I have a disagreement with someone, it means I'm doing something wrong."
What is personalization
He didn't say Hi to me this morning so he must be mad at me for something I did.
"There are many reasons why he did not say Hi to me. It's probably not personal." OR "I will check in with him later and make sure everything is ok"
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
I know I am going to have a panic attack when I have to speak in group tomorrow so I should just opt out of presenting.
"I can practice my coping skills if I start to feel anxious. But I should at least give it a try."
"I am what I have suffered"
What is Labeling
I have had a headache for two days. I must have a brain tumor.
"Headaches are common and happen occasionally. There is no need to worry." OR "I am under a lot of stress and my body is probably telling me I need to take it easy."
Complete the statement: Watch your ___ they become your ___; watch your ___ they become your ___; watch your ___ they become your ___; watch your ___ they become your ___; watch your ___ it becomes your ___.
Watch your thoughts they become your words; watch your words they become your actions; watch your actions they become your habits; watch your habits they become your character; watch your character it becomes your destiny.