"I will never be happy."
Examples: "I may be unhappy now but that can pass." "I have been happy before and I can be happy again."
I should give my friend money because he asked me for it.
Examples: "I wish I could loan him money but I cannot afford it." "I want to give my friend money because it makes me feel good and I have enough to spare."
This is another term for Cognitive Distortions.
What are Negative Automatic Thoughts
She is moving to a new apartment because she does not like having me as a neighbor.
What is personalization
He didn't say Hi to me this morning so he must be mad at me for something I did.
"There are many reasons why he did not say Hi to me. It's probably not personal." "I will check in with him later and make sure everything is ok"
I know she complimented me on my new outfit, but she was just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
I know I am going to have a panic attack when I go the party tomorrow so I should just cancel my plans now.
"I can practice my coping skills if I start to feel anxious and I can leave the party if I start to panic. But I should at least give it a try." "I have been to these types of parties before and I have never had a panic attack. I will probably be fine."
These are well-learned ways of thinking about situations that are instantaneous and reflect our underlying beliefs about the world.
What are automatic thoughts
I am mentally ill and cannot contribute anything to anyone.
What is Labeling. Reframe! I am living with a mental illness and I have a lot to offer to this world! Mental illness does not define who I am as a person!
I have had a headache for two days. I must have a brain tumor.
"Headaches are common and happen occasionally. "If my headache doesn't go away in a day, I will make an appointment with my doctor to check it out." "I've been under a lot of stress lately, maybe my body is telling me I need to take it easy."
What do cognitive distortion thinking patterns reinforce?
What are negative emotions, thoughts, and behaviors.