"They have expensive cars and own a whole store - they can afford it if I 'borrow' something. Besides I will come back in a week or two an pay for it"
What is Justification?
Believing that an urge or need must be fulfilled as soon as possible and you cannot allow that need to go unfulfilled.
What is Immediate gratification
Believing that only perfect solutions are acceptable and that perfect solutions will fix the problem forever.
What is Unreasonable expectations?
This is another term for Cognitive Distortions.
What are Thinking errors?
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
What is Minimization?
This distortion is when we ignore the fact that events can be good, bad or even both at the same time.
What is Focusing on the Negative?
Believing that your negative emotions reflect a negative reality.
What is Emotional Reasoning?
He insulted me in front of everyone, Its not my fault I punched him, he disrespected me.
What is Victim stance?
My boss yelled at me when It was my coworkers fault, not mine. Just wait until he finds out I keyed his car and slashed his tires -that will make us even.
Desire for fairness.