This is when we believe that our emotions reflect the way things truly are.
What is Emotional Reasoning?
Fortune Telling and Mind Reading are types of what cognitive distortion?
What is Jumping to Conclusions
This is when we make broad interpretations for a single or few events.
What is Overgeneralization
I should give my friend money because he asked me for it.
Examples: "I wish I could loan him money but I cannot afford it." "I want to give my friend money because it makes me feel good and I have enough to spare."
These can influence your feelings and subsequent actions.
What are Cognitive Distortions?
He didn't say Hi to me this morning so he must be mad at me for something I did.
"There are many reasons why he did not say Hi to me. It's probably not personal." "I will check in with him later and make sure everything is ok"
Types of statements make us feel pressured, guilty, or resentful that we use to motivate ourselves to do things and create unrealistic expectations.
What are "Should" statements.
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
I know I am going to have a panic attack when I go the party tomorrow so I should just cancel my plans now.
"I can practice my coping skills if I start to feel anxious and I can leave the party if I start to panic. But I should at least give it a try." "I have been to these types of parties before and I have never had a panic attack. I will probably be fine."
These are well-learned ways of thinking about situations that are instantaneous and reflect our underlying beliefs about the world.
What are automatic thoughts
This is when we believe that we are responsible for events outside of our control.
What is Personalization?
I should succeed at everything I try.
What is "should" statements?
I have had a headache for two days. I must have a brain tumor.
"Headaches are common and happen occasionally. There is no need to worry." "If my headache doesn't go away in a day I will make an appointment with my PCP to check it out." "I am under a lot of stress and my body is probably telling me I need to take it easy."
What did the speaker of the Ted talk tell himself when his newborn son had to go to the intensive care unit?
Remember it's not the events, but your thoughts that upset you.