This is when we think in absolutes such as "always", "never", or "every". I never get good grades.
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking
This is when we apply simplistic and unfair definitions that are probably wrong or more likely incomplete on ourselves and others.
What is Labeling
She broke up with me last night. Now I'll never meet anyone.
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking OR What is Overgeneralization
"I will never be happy"
Examples: "I may be unhappy now but that will pass." "I have been happy before and I will be happy again."
This is when we see a single negative event as a part of a never-ending streak of failure. We use words like "always," "never," "everybody".
What is Overgeneralization?
This is when we anticipate that things will turn out badly and act as if they already turned out that way.
What is Fortune Telling
She did not say anything about my new haircut. She must think it is ugly!
What is Mind Reading?
This happens when we exaggerate the importance of events.
What is Magnification or Catastrophizing?
This is when we see ourselves as the cause of negative events that we are not responsible for.
What is Personalization
He is moving to a a new classroom because he does not like me.
What is personalization?
This is when we interpret the thoughts and beliefs of others without evidence.
What is Mind Reading?
This is when we look at our strengths and minimize them.
What is Minimization?
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
I know I am going to fail the test tomorrow so I mind as well not go to school.
"I can study for the test so I can pass". "I had test before that I did well because I studied". "I will do fine."
Interpreting the meaning of a situation with little or no evidence.
What is Jumping to Conclusions?
This is an extreme example of turning positive events into negative ones.
What is Disqualifying the Positive?
I am not smart and I cannot be successful in life.
What is Labeling? Reframe! I am smart and I will have a successful life!
Bad things should not happen to me because I am a good person
What is Magical Thinking?