This is when we see things in black and white categories. There is no grey area.
What is All-or-Nothing Thinking (Polarized Thinking)
"I will never be happy"
Examples: "I may be unhappy now but that will pass." "I have been happy before and I will be happy again."
This is when we anticipate that things will turn out badly and act as if they already turned out that way.
I should give my friend money because he asked me for it.
Examples: "I wish I could loan him money but I cannot afford it." "I want to give my friend money because it makes me feel good and I have enough to spare."
This is another term for Cognitive Distortions.
What is Faulty Thinking or Stinky Thinking
This happens when we blow a negative event out of proportion.
Catastrophizing
This is when we see ourselves as the cause of negative events that we are not responsible for.
What is Personalization
Types of statements make us feel pressured, guilty or resentful that we use to motivate ourselves to do things and create unrealistic expectations.
What are "Should" statements.
I know she complimented me on my new outfit but she was just being nice.
What is Disqualifying the Positive OR What is Minimization
These are well-learned ways of thinking about situations that are instantaneous and reflect our underlying beliefs about the world.
What are automatic thoughts
I am mentally ill and cannot contribute anything to anyone.
What is Labeling. Reframe! I am living with a mental illness and I have a lot to offer to this world! Mental illness does not define who I am as a person!
I just failed my math test, I will never be successful I am doomed to fail
What is catastrophizing